I met this girl on the internet and we talk everyday. But the thing about it, we have so much in common. I am really starting to like her, the problem is we live in two different states. I have told her how much I care for her, but I don't think she beleives me.
I am willing to do anything to meet her, even if I have to relocate. What can I do to prove to her that I am serious about starting a real relationship.
2006-08-24 17:10:02 · 6 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that you should find a way to meet her. i think she'll be pretty skeptical on what you really want, i get the feeling that she is afraid of being hurt and that no amount of words can reassure her that you aren't going to hurt her. she's been hurt before and doesn't want that to happen again. if she's anything like me it will take something big to get her attention. you've obviously caught it but you have to figure out how to keep it. the whole relocating thing, she probably would feel too much pressure from you if you did. she would feel obligated to be with you and that isn't right. if she moved there, same thing just reversed. you might be ok with it, but she doesn't seem like she would be. try just visiting or her visiting you before you take that big of a jump. it will take alot of convincing though to get her there or her to let you come where she is. i think she probably knows to be careful about people she meets on the internet. it isn't the safest place to meet people, but there are people who have found spouses on here so who knows? i think if you give her time you will be best off. open up about yourself more and by the both of you making yourself more vulnerable that way maybe she'd come around faster.
2006-08-26 07:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably doesn't believe you right now because she's been hurt before or has low self esteem. She needs time. Decide if she's worth the wait. If she is than wait for her to come around. Either way a relationship never makes the long haul if one party is pushed along. You may eventually find that your both on separate paths and you may have to move on. But right now is just not the time. Like the old saying goes: You can't rush love. Sorry!
2006-08-25 00:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by mediaevalprincess 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Buddy.. just be careful! Ppl u see or meet on the net sould be met in the net not in person...
Anybody can just be what the wanna be!
Dont trust anybody & dont believe that anybody would be willing to trust you..
2006-08-25 00:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
As long as your upfront about your feelings, and don't lead her on - I think you should just tell her how you feel. Ask her what her thoughts are on meeting you.
2006-08-25 00:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a $1,000 dollars
2006-08-25 00:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure that this person you've met was a girl? if she's a girl and dosen't belives you, smart girl for her
2006-08-25 00:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by Dreamweaver 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋