Okay, known this girl for almost a year, haved liked her for like 8 months, and have let her know countless times. Never forced it on her though, always played it cool, but nothing ever happened.... I told her I liked her too much to be just friends, and she said she just didn't like me like that, that was fine, as hard as it was, I went my own way, and stopped trying, and stopped calling her, and left her alone. Since then she has tried very hard to start hanging out with me again. Calls me all the time, texts me all the time, makes me feel bad for not going out to the bars and clubs with her. She supposedly had a boyfriend since I kinda quit on her. But that supposedly lasted 2 weeks, not sure who he was or if he existed. She knows how adament I am about my feelings, and knows I feel so strongly for her, time will not heal how I feel. So why try and get back in my life, why come back to me. She is really bad about dropping hints too, she asked me if I liked the song Lips of an Angel.
2006-08-24 17:08:59 · 17 answers · asked by ijustdontknowanymore 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aw, if you like it then just follow the game,,,,,
but in my oppinion, married is out of the question
2006-08-24 17:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by Henry W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just like your company as a friend only, right now. I don't think she is just playing a game. Her feelings for you just has not progress yet to where you are. Maybe if you give her some time to catch up everyone will be happy in the long run. If you really have feelings for her like you said, then you would want to be around her even if for a friend right now. Well that's my opinion.
2006-08-25 00:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be cautious in ur actions. She may have started missing u and must be trying to grt u back. There is also a possibility that she is using u. Sometimes girls like to think that many men are after them - they like boasting about it. It is possible she wants to keep u on the hook. Be friends with her but move on in life. Interact with more people - u may find a much better woman.
2006-08-25 00:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by RAMA K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she might like playing games. Now that you've "lost interest" she's more interested. She may not know what she's looking for. If she is truly a friend sit down and talk to her about what's going on.
2006-08-25 00:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by tori474 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is playing a game wit u... she can either be interested in u or just want u as a friend cuz ur a great friend to her maybe... u can either move on or try to play the game wit her n see where it leads... if u really like her... u should try harder...
quote : "any man can sweep any women off their feet wit the right broom"
Tips : give 30% of attention when ur around her, dont tell her you like her, act like if u dont want her, n girls like to be touched (but give a reason to touch her).
2006-08-28 12:44:14 · answer #5 · answered by Tuan N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lmfao @ pabstblue's answer!~
Indeed pal, she's messing you around. I was the victim in the same game with a girl I liked for years.
Waste of time.
I moved on, and I am so much happier for it.
2006-08-25 00:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by cat_the_aussie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she's playing games. As soon as you are no longer chasing her she wants to pull you back in. Then she'll just push you away again. Move on like you've been doing.
2006-08-25 00:11:52 · answer #7 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably misses the attention that she got from you. Don't hurt yourself. Talk to her and let her know that you have no intentions on playing games, and see what happens. Maybe she realizes what she is missing!!
2006-08-25 00:17:56 · answer #8 · answered by Sukara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is just dropping hints and not talking to you straight forward about it, sounds like she's messing with you. If she really did care for you, wouldn't she let you know about it? Yes, she would.
2006-08-25 00:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by Mike R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
zzz...she just wants u as a friend and u completely ignore her...doesnt look like u gonna be having any girl till u change that mindset
2006-08-25 00:17:26 · answer #10 · answered by rulewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being unavalible might be sexy and she feels like she missed a good thing...hard to get might work for ya!
2006-08-25 00:13:27 · answer #11 · answered by deadshscott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋