Why hasn't he tried to kiss me again?

Question

I met him at a party and we had made out while drunk and I spent the night at his house without having sex. We are both VIRGINS in college.

He calls me a few days later and he wants to hang out again. We do. I spend the night again and he holds, hugs, etc. but does not kiss me.

Then he invites me over because he wants to make dinner together. So we hang out again and I spent the night again just by holding, etc. However, we haven't kissed since the first time. Why is it that he keeps making moves, invites me so he can cook for me, hugs me, holds me, etc. etc. yet does not try to kiss me again?

He also compliments me too, and calls me very cute, and beautiful. Oh, and my face is not fugly btw for anybody who is going to say that....I was scouted for modelling once. Thing is, I'm not a fan of kissing, but why hasn't it happened again?

Answer 1

He doesn't want things to go too fast. Give him and yourself some time to get to know each other. Kissing is when you guys are more intimate. So just wait and give the guy some time!

Answer 2

'cause he's scared. He likes you but isn't sure that if he takes it to the next step whether he can live with himself. Besides, if you were both drunk when it happened the first time...

I know, I've been tipsy and wound up kissing someone I didn't mean to, regretted it after it happened couldn't reverse things in the relationship because after we kissed, the relationship went on to another level (yes, a little too soon).

Be glad that he enjoys your company and wants to hang out with you. Worry if he stops calling. Good luck!

Answer 3

if you don't even like kissing, then why worry about it? maybe he feels the same way. and he probably made out with you in the first place b/c you were both drunk and doing whatever you felt like. maybe he's embaressed after the way you made out the first time. it could be a million different things and agonizing over it will just make it worse. just give him some time and see how it goes.

Answer 4

Because you made out while drunk. Maybe he wishes that you guys had taken it slower. He's probably making up for that now. He'll kiss you when the time is right. You could always make a move too you know.

Answer 5

it's totally scary, but I think you can make the move now. He's called you, invited you over, you can initiate a kiss.

He's probably just nervous. wouldn't be surprised one bit if once it happens he admits he chickened out several times.

And just enjoy what you have with him for now. I'd take it!

Answer 6

There is a good chance that this guy was drunk when he kissed you and does not remeber that he kissed you. He might remeber that he liked you and wants to be cool wit you but he is still nervous about the first kiss, cuz to him it might be the first kiss since he doesnt remeber the first one. LOL. Seriously

Answer 7

Be more patient my dear.. He just wait for the right moment to kiss you again.. You are so lucky bcoz not many guys out there act like him.You know what i mean,right??

Answer 8

maybe he doesn't want to rush into anything or maybe he just didn't like the way you kissed . why don't you make the first move and try to kiss him and see what happens

Answer 9

because he does not want to scare you, my first bf did that to, he made sure he didnt scare by asking, your man is a little more scared of asking, but anyway, just start by looking at him in the face, and dont look away, and just move in a little, if he pulls away, then he does not want to kiss and is not ready to move on, if he kisses you, then he does want to kiss you, but i hope this helps

Answer 10

Just ask him.Now that he(and you) are sober(don't do that again...you could have been raped),he may want to take things slow or he might be embarassed about the last time