I have several Co-Workers, but one sticks out. I really like this lady who sits 30 feet away from me. We been working in the same office for 1 year, and we have never engage in any conversation. She always look at me when she thinks that I am not aware. One time she was coming out of the restroom and bumped into me and she got really nervous. When she is near me in a meeting, she can never look me in the eye, but I always catch her looking when I have my back turned. I feel nervous or equally the same around her too. One time she spoke to me but it was very brief (hello!), and she started walking 100 miles/hr. When she see me walking down the hallway she start getting very tense, and I feel the same. Sometimes she will look away or hold head down instead of speaking or take a different route.
2006-08-24 17:01:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG! That is sooooooooo sweet! Okay, here's what you do: 1-go to her cubicle when you see that she is not busy. Chat up a conversation with her, (maybe the weather, or tell her she has a lovely outfit on, yada yada yada). Don't chat up a conversation with her about work related issues that are annoying or stressful, it will keep the conversation negative mmmkay? 2-You see how she responds to you. Assess her nonverbals, (i.e. body language, eye contact, etc...). Does she seem interested? Do her mouth say "it was nice talking to you," but her eyes say "come and rip my clothes off and do me monkey style on the desk you hot studmuffin!" If so, smile and end the conversation. Okay, wait two days and return to her cubicle when she is not busy again in the morning and ask her if she would like to have lunch with you. Perhaps you two could slip away for lunch. If your office has a cafeteria DO NOT eat there!!! You know how catty women are and they will start an office rumor about you two. Plus, they are also jealous! Beware of the gossipers! Okay, if she says no, then ask her "when is a good time for you to have lunch with me?" Put the ball in her court and have her schedule the lunch date. If she says she doesn't know, and will get back to you, then tell her you okay that's fine and don't be a pest. It sounds like she really likes you, so she will come back and give you a date/time. If not, wait another day and ask again. Okay Javant my man, stop being shy! Go get your woman, and be confident, but not cocky. Mind your manners, be polite and always look your best. And the next time you see Miss Thang staring at you, look her way and smile and wave. And if she looks down and has the "OMG!" look on her face, go over there and talk to her. Your shy! She's shy! So therefore, if you don't start up a conversation with her, you will never get to have lunch with her, kiss her, hold her, have wild passionate monkey love with her! Get my point! But, just keep in mind that office romances are difficult, and if things work out, you two should keep it under wraps at work, seriously. Beware of the catty jealous women! Good luck! I'm so excited for you! Yeah!!!! Stop being shy! Go get your woman!
2006-08-24 17:15:57 · answer #1 · answered by adjoadjo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a year of working together, if you have never talked to her yet, either you 2 are very shy or she really does not want to have anything to do with you.
You could throw a small party and give her an invite on her desk, and if she doesn't show up, you will probably have your answer.
Good luck
2006-08-24 17:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be friends with her first. she could be shy, but how do you know that's just it? maybe shes not approaching you for a reason, it could be because a traumatic past relationship, who knows? get to know her first. get past this awkwardness so if you do get together, you're comfortable around each other. a good relationship needs to have the foundation of a friendship. good luck!
2006-08-24 17:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by poopermon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has fallen for u man. good for u. the next time u meet, just grab her hand and pull her close before she runs away then ask her out, she will totally lose wats left of her composure
2006-08-24 17:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by rulewell 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Break the ice, what is the worse that can happen. If anything you will have gained a friend.
2006-08-24 17:05:21 · answer #5 · answered by Sukara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she likes you but is nervious about expressing herself, maybe you should start making conversation with her and she will be more comfortable and open up.
2006-08-24 17:04:52 · answer #6 · answered by jessica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop acting like acting like your in middle school, please, she probly does like you, and you should talk to her, like just ask her how her days has been, or something like that, but please, i see kids do that everyday, and i know how you feel, but just talk to her, a little more everyday, and dont plan it out, just ask her stuff, or compliment her, girls like that, she will smile, and act a little weird, this is probly good, but still just talk to her
2006-08-24 17:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley T. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send her some flowers. If she is interested she will let you know.
2006-08-24 17:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by JodiBaby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask
2006-08-24 17:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋