2006-08-24 16:58:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gotta have both for me
2006-08-24 17:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well of course first off they look at what you look like, that is natural, but if they get to know you, the looks are not the most important. It is how you make them feel. Women like men who are strong, yet not afraid to be gentle. Someone who will stand up to them, yet give in too.. Make what they say important coz whatever they say is important to them or they would not have said it. I love my husband because he will not kiss my *** all the time, but he makes me feel I am the most special in the whole world and not afraid to tell anyone that as well. He doesn't let me have my way all the time, but compromises with me.. it's the little things that matter most... a person with looks can be ugly by their actions, and an ugly person can become beatiful by their actions.. it is all in the heart of the beholder.... the main thing is to know that they can trust you, and that the hug or kiss will be there tomorrow just as it is today, and that they don't have to worry about it.
2006-08-25 00:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by texas.okie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the woman. Not all women are looking for the same thing. I think both are very important. I look for trust, honesty, and someone who can make me fall over in hysterics. Also gotta be able to take care of yourself, No Mama's Boys!
2006-08-25 00:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by cat s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both. It's hard to be with somebody who doesn't have both. That's just my personal opinion. Of course a guy who isn't immediately attractive can become more attractive to a woman by how well he treats her and what a great person he is.
2006-08-25 00:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Character. But it would be great if a guy got both.
2006-08-25 00:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, the guy could be a knockout and I wouldn't date him if I didn't feel I could trust him. Integrity is my #1. As soon as a guy does something to make me feel I can't trust him 100% he's history.
2006-08-25 00:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by vbplr_12 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's be honest, looks + character!
2006-08-25 00:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by Sukara 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sense of humor for sure! A plain man can become incredibly sexy if he can make me laugh.
2006-08-25 00:02:46 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole Z 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
both character is more important though
2006-08-25 00:02:51 · answer #9 · answered by transplanted 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋