Hi, my bf is a tax attorney. We are having a LDR. I am in the west coast and he's in the east. He has been very busy lately. He works long hours. I can tell he's quite stressed out and overwhelmed by his new cases. He's so rigid and I haven't seen him smile for a while when we video chatting. Right now, he doesn't even have time for me. Is there anything I can do to help him loosen up a bit? I don't want to make him feel that I am mothering him when he's stressful. I need his attention but I understand that this moment he has to deal with his work first. I just want to show him my care, even we are apart. Can someone give me some suggestion? I want to send him some daily SMS to cheer him up. What should I write to make him laugh? I am a very serious person so I don't know how to make up funny text messages. Please help.
2006-08-24 16:26:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ya wanna see him smile... strip (haha, omg, I'm so funny)
2006-08-24 16:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by jared 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course hes busy. He doesn't have the time to be playing this boyfriend nonsense with you. Why? Because education -if hes going to college at all- and a establishing his career is very important to him. Men don't have the luxury to slack off. Women don't typically marry men with no education and no job, however men still marry women who have no education and no job if shes attractive enough. You're being an anchor around his neck. You need to let go. You need to find an older man who is more prepared for your personal life agenda.
2016-03-27 04:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you can work along with him and bring a lunch and socialize at the moment for a break. At that point tell him how you feel and that you desire some of his attention and take it from there. Stop focusing on caring for him so much and let him start at this point to care for you.
2006-08-24 16:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could send him some wild flowers (not only girls like to get them) & let him know that you love him very much & you will always be there if he needs any TLC or send him a massage theropy certific as it sounds like he needs down time for himself. Be patient dear it will all work out, & your right he doesn't need mothering.
2006-08-24 16:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy really needs to get a grip.He needs to make time to talk to you.I understand we all need to work,but we all need some time for each other and he needs to realize this befor it's to late.It will come to that when we don't have time for each other,it will get old.
2006-08-24 16:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him some great sexy pictures of yerself, that would prolly make his day, don't ya think? if u have a friend that's cool, too.a girl friend, perhaps, i dunno, but if not just put the camera down and get to it, eh? i know my ol' man would really get off on it , specially with " a friend" good luck to u and yer overly stressed man really , think about it, sounds good, huh?
in any case, live long and prosper~~~~~ victoriap69 ;-)~
2006-08-24 16:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by victoriap69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably knows you care already. I would leave him alone to do his work. Answer when he contacts you but don't keep texting him or calling him. That's too needy.
2006-08-24 16:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋