secrets about exgirlfriends and female friends? For example, with the internet, old friends can find you if they've lost contact with you. Should a man tell his girl or hide it for fear of jealously.
2006-08-24 16:21:46 · 16 answers · asked by willno74 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha ooo boy this rings a bell....i think that my opinion is that if you think you have to hide it you have something to hide and i shouldnt trust you...i like honesty...give a girl a chance to react how she has to by being honest and then she will think in her head "hold on he has nothin to hide because he was honest" and she will cool down and accept it more...if you hide it and she finds out she will think there is something there that needed to be hidden and have major trust issues with you...(btw is this my kevin asking this ?....lol...you have no idea how many times i have been thru this so i had to ask...lol)
2006-08-24 16:35:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honest is the main key word to a relation. So b honest to yr partner, it true tat lots of women get jealous but so tat, tat prove u r somebody to them. Women will 1st get jealous but they will b glad to hv found an honest man, honestly mean u can trust him, if u can trust him tat aso mean u can marry this guy! So think abt it u want this gal to b yr wife or just pass time?
2006-08-24 23:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by D@ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be upfront about it. But if she asks you to let them go, you need to. If you feel you need to keep it secret, you know it's something that would bother her, and something you really shouldn't be doing. But believe me, if you hide it, she'll find it, and you'll be deeper in than if you had just told her from the get-go.
2006-08-24 23:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by Aliza, Queen of the Night 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would want to know. If you have nothing to hide just tell the truth. It's better to hear it from you than to find out on your own.
2006-08-24 23:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, why would she want to know about your ex's, its wrong to bring them up, like Sally Sue and I use to do this or that, WTF who cares, that will make your girlfriend crazy...Now if they contact you via whatever, you can tell ex your in a relationship and end it there. If your present girlfriend doesn't trust you and is the jealous type, its time to end that relationship. Trust is a must, without it trouble is bound to happen.....
2006-08-25 00:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
secrets and jealously make a good ax for a relationship.
2006-08-24 23:26:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude be honest, don`t let her find out from someone else that u r seeking old flames, u should really consider ur motives for finding them & talk to her about why u want to find em & invite her to come meet them if it goes that far. don`t let her being jelous scare u if u have honest motives.
2006-08-24 23:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by imyagoodluckcharm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may make her jealous at first. But i'm sure she would appreciate the honesty rather then finding out things on her own.
2006-08-24 23:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by .nicole. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is just a friend, why hide? Maybe the three of you can be friends?
2006-08-24 23:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would prefer to know rather than to find out. It's trust.
2006-08-24 23:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by j t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋