am i really that horrible.... lots of guys online flirt with me, but i can't get a date to save my life:(
2006-08-24 16:20:55 · 37 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you arent around the right guys. You should tonally espose yourself around different guys. Also dont think of yourself as horrible. It's the guys the one with the promblem. Not you.
2006-08-24 16:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by It's my life 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tough question.
Do you ask guys for a date? What do they say, and if they say no, do they tell you why?
Do you go to the same places all the time? Or is it the same in different places?
I do know some guys might have a problem with a single mom, they would view the kids as a "barrier".
So, i do not think there is a single 'right' answer.
You might want to consider not trying to date for a while - once i did, things started to happen.
Don`t let it ruin your joy in life and your kids though.
Also, drop by in Yahoo Chat : Christian Chat 1 sometimes - there are plenty of nice people there , and a group that does meet annually too. I`m usually there too with this ID.
Cheers,
Tom / USS
2006-08-24 16:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by U_S_S_Enterprise 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're having the same problem as me, I meet guys all the time, everywhere, but I'm meeting all the wrong ones, because I never really realized how picky I was until my friends started pointing it out that I never give guys a chance, If a guy isn't up to "my standards" I blow him off. Ask yourself what kind of guys you're meeting and what kind of guys you like....also surround yourself with the kinds of people you enjoy being around, you'll meet someone in no time ;-)
2006-08-24 16:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ur attractive ! I think any man would want to bang u, but men are scared of strong independant women ,especially if she has kids. Men don't want to get into a relation which would make them race other men's kids or be involved cauze it's complicated.
Ur looks is HOT & i see GREAT BOOBS on u.
Either ur looking in the wrong place for men or just bad luck. Try to pick up guys at thr grocery store. BEST in SUCCESS & good quality men do grocery shopping.
2006-08-24 16:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not trying to offend you but do u think maybe that you could be trying to hard?
That maybe all the effort u put in On-line is affecting ur ability to communicate in the real world?
Can i ask do u spend to much time online?
I think that when u are out.. at a club or in the shopping centre u dont realise that maybe u are as scared to just chat to randoms as they are to chat to you.. surround urself in environments that u like ... the muzik u like the dresseverythink.... and because u will find people that hav stuff in common with u and they will love u.
afterall, things that we love about other are the things that we love about ourselves!
good luck xox
2006-08-24 16:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by emalie_rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not try dating guys in real life and maybe take a few chances? Life is uncertain, and yes, you may be rejected. Learn from the mistakes and realize that you are unique,nobody else in this world is like you. Good luck Hon. I mean that.
2006-08-24 17:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right guy doesn't have to be someone you meet purposefully you date! Come close to another friend- maybe if you looked at some guy you'd notice he really liked you! Just remember that ou'e unique and eventually some guy will love you for who you are.
2006-08-24 16:25:19 · answer #7 · answered by x_Super_Social_Superstar_x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a human,of course we need a partner,right?but the question then,is it compulsory?4 me, actually, it's not....i don mean that u should be alone..you can enjoy love based on your own interpretation,right? love isn't just about hugging and kissing..love is about loo0king 4 d good in people, n if u can do that,n do IT consistently, then your own happiness is guaranteed...As our life is a refection of ourselves,the more LOVE ur giving, d more ur receiving,then....d more ur becoming,d more ur gowing and so 4 all of us LOVE is EVERYTHING...tq...
2006-08-24 16:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my perspective, most guys would say yes if a girl asked them out on a date. Personally, I think that reflects well on the girl as it shows they're honest in who they like. Guys also feel like they have less to lose if they go out with someone that asked them.
If you're holding out until a guy asks you out, I don't know what to say. I don't know who you are.
2006-08-24 16:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you don't like the guys that do want to date you. There's someone for everyone. Beauty can be a reflection of your attitude. Mr.Pickle has cured you.
2006-08-24 16:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by willno74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋