how do you know that your lesbian or bi?

Answer 1

you'll know.. i've dealt with this same question myself. my first crush was on a girl i mean i had a boyfriend here or there but it never felt the same as it did with a girl. when i had a crush on a girl is was such a stronger feeling inside, butterflys,geety, all of that but i always thought nooo how can i be gay its kinda like ur shocking urself with the truth but dont want to admitt it but have come to realize i am in fact a lesbian and have no shame in it. now if ur bi you'd feel the same way about both sex's not with just a female

Answer 2

If you are attracted to women physically and you can see yourself in a relationship with a woman you yourself are a woman, then you are a lesbian. Bisexuality is a bit of a gray area that really allows for someone to question your emotional state. Most bisexuals have been sexually, emotionally, or physically abused or grown up in an unstable household. You should really assess what you like and don't like-go with what feels natural to you and worry less about labels. Talk with a counselor or therapist as well.

Answer 3

You know that you are a lesbian when you don't find yourself attracted to guys, but you are attracted to girls. You know that you are bi when you are attracted to both the sexes. Its kind of a difficult situation. I could explain more if you want. Just IM me and we can discuss more about it.

Answer 4

Um, I think when you like girls in that way, well, your gay. It's pretty simple. If you gotta convince yourself into it, well, I'm guessing you're just curious.

Answer 5

bi is just being in denial subconsciously that you're completely gay.

Answer 6

give her a try! when in doubt try her out!