I ask this question because ive been noticing just how selfish I am I dont really put anyone before myself and I always want what I want and im not really grateful for anything but the thing is I know this and continue to be selfish and as I get older my selfishness is most likely going to get worser so I just wanted to know others opinions on being selfish and realizing it but you cant stop it.
2006-08-24 16:17:23 · 10 answers · asked by E-con 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope.
But you know the impact that raise.
2006-08-24 16:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you realize you are selfish and do nothing to change it, then yes I think it is wrong. Selfishness doesn't do anyone, including you, any good at all. Think about your job, school, relationships, future, etc - if you continue to be selfish the people in your life are going to eventually get tired of it and it certainly isn't fair to them.
2006-08-24 23:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its wrong!!! If you had a zit wowuld you try to get rid of it?If you had and ailment would you try to get rid of it?If the answer is yes,then I ask....what makes you think selfishness is any different? It is just as unattractive as a zit or bad breath.What will eventually happen is that you will become a victim of your own selfishness,and no one will want to deal with you on any level.Then you will become like count oloff(Lemony Snikett's),old bitter.ugly and lonely.
2006-08-24 23:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by girlqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because if you never give you never get and no one likes to be around selfish people you will have a very lonely life when you bless others you bless yourself
Be encouraged
1love
2006-08-24 23:21:50 · answer #4 · answered by caramelcutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you realize it you need to try and stop it. No one likes a selfish person.
2006-08-24 23:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i give you credit for at least acknowledging that yu are what you are. Now why don't you consider others and start giving back , start some sort of charity or participate in a charity then you will see what life is all about.
2006-08-24 23:21:46 · answer #6 · answered by angel_64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong...it just wont always work for you. Be careful, being selfish can be real lonely during the holidays and at lunchtime.
2006-08-24 23:20:18 · answer #7 · answered by BELLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start out small, like for example, give in once and see the movie the other person wants to see, maybe with concious effort, alittle at a time you can change.
2006-08-24 23:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by Brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course!
2006-08-24 23:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by Dana J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on u know it is
2006-08-24 23:20:51 · answer #10 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋