Missing him?

Question

Im looking at military poems on the internet, and im thinking about and missing my husband. its making me cry. i keep telling myself ive only got 2 more months to go. anyone got anything encouraging to say that might cheer me up?

I know its immpossible, but i wish that everytime i was crying, he could sense that, and call me. hearing his voice would cheer me up. im so lonely without him.

Answer 1

I Pride you women that marry men in the military. I would NOT be able to do it. I would just breka down! Cheer up honey! you are a very strong woman to be able to handle that in the first place. With only 2 months to go, he will beby your side in no time. Much love and God Bless!

Answer 2

I just got back from my second tour and I am married with 4 daughters. It kept me going knowing my wife was there at the end with my girls. Know that you are his light at the end of a dark tunnel. It was real hard on my wife for a long time. But without her I would have never have made it through. You are the most important thing to him during these times. And he probaly senses everytime you feel sad but you really dont talk about it when you call home because you are trying to be strong for him and vice versa. Just bear with it and just think about 2 months from now.

Answer 3

I know how you feel I had to go 12 months without hearing his voice it is so hard. But just look forward to him coming home! I only got to e-mail my husband and chat on here and when there internet was down I'd be so scared something happened but now he is home and it is the best feeling in the world to have him here.. atleast till next time. So just look forward to spending time together my last 2 months aloned i spent my time planning on things to do when he got home made him a nice dinner and rose petals warm bath all that stuff.

Answer 4

I completely understand. I am going crazy without communication with my soul-mate. I really don't know how not to worry about him. I've loved him for 8 years, but I wont be able to see him 6 more months! I am not the most patient person in the world either! He hasn't been able to get on-line or contact me for almost a week now, and my mind has thought up every reason as to why. Keep in mind:Internet connections are down all the time over there, many times they have to wait in extremely long lings to have access to a phone or computer, they are extremely busy and stressed, and their time zone differs from our own.
Get in a support group. (if you find a good one let me know) Or start a myspace to consume your time. send me a message if you want to talk about it and let me know what helps.

Answer 5

Ahh sweetie I feel for you. Keep strong you are almost there. I'm engaged to a navy man and he just left last month and won't return until late next year. I as along with alot of other women understand what you are going through. Just try to keep strong and if crying makes you feel better well than just cry. I'm here for you if you want to ever just chat. Big hugs to you!!!!!

Answer 6

Hey girl its ok to feel that way. My husband just left for Iraq and he is in the Navy as well. They have him right down in the smack of Baghdad. Me and the kids talk to him almost everyday and see him on the webcam every 4 days. He even does home work with our daughter everyday. When you get sad, just think of me I won't see my husband in person until the end of July 2007. blessings to you girlfriend!

Answer 7

My father was a military man and gone for many months at a time,,,,,I know some of what you are feeling, and do sympathize with you. I was always proud of what my dad was doing, how he was serving his country, and that helped.
Do you have a special project you have been waiting to tackle and haven;t gotten around to? a surprise for your sailor husband>? maybe u can work on that and keep occupied. God bless.

Answer 8

I thank you for your sacrifice. I thank your husband for serving. I am sorry for your loneliness and there is nothing I can say to make that go away. Just know in your heart that we, my family and friends, can not express our gratitude enough for the sacrifices of those that serve in the military and their families. May God Bless you both and bring your man home to you safe and soon!

Answer 9

I am a civilian contractor here in Iraq. I work beside and support many of our Countrie's finest men and women, perhaps one of them is your man. I can't stop your tears nor would I want to because it is a beautiful expession of your heart. However, I can promise you that this man of yours is longing with all his heart to be reunited with you and his family and that your being strong, proud and supportive will mean more to him now than anything in this world.
I have seen a lot of soldier's with broken hearts, and I can't tell you how good it felt to read your question. Your man is very fortunate and so are you. Becuase of him and many more like him; so are we.

Answer 10

Just rember that the next two months compared to the rest of your life is a very small ammount of time. He'll be home before you know it!