....sexual pleasure?
You know how during grade school, kids would brag about getting to first base (kissing), second, third and home? Well, I am 25 years old and have never even had a chance to strike out! That's right. Girls won't even come within 90 feet of me to give me a change to swing!
Is there any girl, even ONE on this entire planet, who would give a guy like me a chance? Or are they ALL the same, thus rendering me doomed when it comes to finding a girl?
2006-08-24 15:27:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys around me get "lucky" all the time. Either they are seen with girlfriends.......or they have girls flirt with them, smile at them, look at them with interest and that kind of stuff. But some guys are so OBLIVIOUS that they don't notice it. And I do. And it pisses me off because I notice these same girls treating me DISCRIMINATELY!
2006-08-24 15:28:57 · update #1
I ___do___ show confidence and I ___have___ pursued other interests..........but whenever I run into females and their repelling vibes, I feel like a total piece of ****. This world would be better sans women!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-24 15:36:43 · update #2
I should say ____my____ world would be better without women.....no I am not gay.........it's just they bring me down wherever I go........and I have been all across North America.
2006-08-24 15:38:31 · update #3
Look, I hate to put it this way, but maybe you need to lower your standards, know what I mean? Have you ever tried going after a girl who wasn't "hot"? There are plenty of girls out there in the same boat as you, because all the guys, no matter how heinous, want to go after the hot chicks. And there are plenty of boy trolls out there who wised up and found themselves a nice girl troll to settle down with, or to just ****. It can happen for you (and hopefully soon before all that pent up sexual frustration explodes.) Good luck with that.
2006-08-24 20:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by wendy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. Other people have the same "problem" of being single or of not having been in a relationship before. Don't think about it or you'll seem desperate for a relationship which will keep the girls even further away.
You won't die having never experienced love and in this world you definitely won't die having never experienced sexual pleasures. Of course not all girls are the same and there will be someone out there who will be interested in you. Try just being friends with them first - close friends of the opposite sex have a better chance of getting together and developing a relationship than a person does with some random stranger who flirts with them as they walk past.
Hmm... maybe some bad experiences have got it fixed in your mind that all girls dislike you on sight. Are you sure you're not just being paranoid? I get paranoid all the time. It sucks.
2006-08-24 15:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by Sindri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your chin up. There really is someone out there for everyone. The only advice I have for you is to try a different approach. Look in different places and for different kinds of women. And if you feel like it go and get a mini makeover. Get a hair cut and buy some new clothes. Maybe, you will be able to catch some stolen glances. And the makeover will boost your confidence, which is what I find most attractive in men.
Just remember true love isn't about how you look it is about who you are.
Good Luck
2006-08-24 15:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by notsomuch77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it was up too me I would not be attracted to a guy who is just looking for sex, because he would be really disappointed with me. I peronally see that as somethign that is designed for marriage, but dont worry so much about meeting a girl. I know this sounds cheesy but just be yourself, don't focus on hooking up, pursue the things you enjoy and don't think about dating, then when you least expect it, a girl might come by and be attracted to you for not hitting on her. And since you would be doing somethign you enjoy or be at a place you like to be, chances are that she would share the same interests as you:) good luck sweetie, there are lots of girls out there don't sell yourself short, and remember, girls don't like to be hit on, but they love to be pursued, but that is an art in itself. It involves being a gentleman and taking your time.
2006-08-24 15:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by malsvb6 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
It just simply means that you have not met the right girl yet. In our society, looks is the main emphasis to first impression. But having confidence in yourself helps a million. Let these girls get to know you well, I am sure being good internally will definitely capture their hearts.
If you think you don't even get the chance to let them get close to you, then you need to spend time and effort to build yourself up. I don't know how you look like, but a great body may help. Do weights. It takes a lot of effort and discipline, I know, but you just simply have to work hard to earn it. If you think that it is your glasses is doing harm to your looks, then change to contact lenses, and it is inconveniences you have to put up with, if you need to improve.
2006-08-24 15:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by Pencil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, it's ok, don't worry, love will find you at the right time. Plenty of girls out there would love to date you, I'm sure, maybe you've just been searching the pantry instead of the fridge. You know, maybe you've been looking in the wrong place, broaden your horizons and see where it leads you.
2006-08-24 15:35:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its becuase your a sexist jerk. i've read your other questions and you act like you are a man whor3 and all the women in the world are your slaves. Well guess what? that doesn't attract women. Women shuld not be belittled. If you are going to act like that..you are lucky if your own mother decides to speak to a male chauvinist like you.
2006-08-24 17:04:02 · answer #7 · answered by Shannon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there dude!! There's someone for everyone. I can't say be patient because it's obvious you've already been patient for 25 yrs. Stop lookin! When you least expect it, love's gonna reach out and grab ya!!!
2006-08-24 15:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...first of all...u gotta have confidence!!!! u can't think the way you are now....my motto...there's always someone for everyone...u just gotta try harder!!!! maybe ur hanging out with the wrong people??? try hanging out in different crowds...but no matter what...always be urself....you want someone to fall in love with YOU rite??? u'll find someone....that special person is out there somewhere.....
2006-08-24 15:34:48 · answer #9 · answered by Trinity A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for sure i know you won't die.....
make an effort to go out, if REALLY still no home run, then..... gotta re-evaluate yourself ...........
i am sure, one can be happy even with love... tat is until 60 then ones become cranky and a bit weird...
2006-08-24 15:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by H K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋