How do you know whether or not he'll treat you like a slave or like dirt before you marry him?
2006-08-24 15:01:52 · 9 answers · asked by hope_floats95 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You don't...that's why you really need to spend a lot of time getting to know him, his family, etc. and asking lots of questions. Even then, there are no guarantees
2006-08-24 15:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand your question!!
But I can tell you that in my religion, Islam, it is a sin to force somebody into anything, even if it is a good thing, or a bad thing! So as a Muslim, I have no excuse; I must approve of the man I am marrying. And if I am forced into the marriage, according to my religion, the person who forced me will be punished.
By the way, you can't know how he'll treat you. It's 2006. If things go wrong, leave.
2006-08-24 22:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by happyfarah88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you date long enough to build a relationship then you will go through times of anger, laughter, mourning, temptation, decision making, praying, going to church, studying the Word together, talking, illness, etc...together before you marry. Through these experiences you can learn how each other responds and acts in different situations. You can learn how he responds to and treats you throughout this relationship building time. How he treats you and how you treat him during this time begins building the foundation of your marriage. If he is protective of you in this time, there is a good chance he will continue being that way after marriage. If he belittles you or teats you disrespectfully in any of these situations before marriage, chances are he will do so after marriage. By courting for a nice length of time you will learn much as will the person you are dating.
2006-08-24 22:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by Noor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you marry a man by religion preference, then you must not care how he will treat you. Because if you cared, you would find that out before you married him by getting to know him and, hopefully, loving him.
2006-08-24 22:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know if He is a true man of God or not, and if He is then He will treat you like a princess. Women need to gain wisdom from God's word to prepare us for the World and making discerning decisions such as that one. I am not married yet, but I am not heading to a bar every night hoping to find Mr. Right, I pray about it, that it will be in God's timing, He is the ultimate writer of romances:) Just trust Him and His timing, things only get messed up when we try to mess with them alone.
2006-08-24 22:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by malsvb6 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you marry him in the name of God you will not be a slave, if you marry in the name of God you are = and have to find a way to make him stop begging you to help you in your everyneed. I Know for a fact God put women on this earth for the sole purpose in life for men to make women happy. The only way a real man can be happy is to make a real women happy.
2006-08-24 22:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by Scott B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pay attention to how he treats you, his family, & other people before you marry him.
That's what the engagement period is all about.....not planning a monster wedding day.
2006-08-24 22:07:57 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way he behaves before you marry..the way he treats him family...the way he treats your waiter at a restaurant..all of those are clues
2006-08-24 22:06:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no one will ever know. but make sure not to marry a Religious fanatic ok
2006-08-24 22:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by ahmed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋