I would trust you but I wouldnt trust him. If I was your man you'd have to be quite a lady and I wouldnt understand why no other guy wouldnt see the same as me so I would feel he is keeping you around just buying his time. Sure their are some friendship roots there but I would still be a little bothered and weary of him...not you!
2006-08-24 14:59:48
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answered by scottwatras 2
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I don't think I would have a problem with it foe the simple fact that I understand that people move on. I think the only time I would have a problem with it would be if I felt like I was second to him. Or if I was'nt priority in comparison to him. For example: if I am talking to you and your ex calls on the phone and you tell me "I'll call you later" I would feel like crap. But as long as both partners have moved on and the feeling for one another where dead in a romantic way, there would'nt be any problem
2006-08-24 15:03:22
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answered by subjex@sbcglobal.net 2
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Funny you should ask that question tonight as my fiance is out at a party with her ex in attendance as we speak. They also have been broken up for a couple of years and had lived together for 12 years before I met and fell in love with her. They have a past and actually still have a business together so they need to see each other quite often. He is also in another relationship and she will look after his dog for him when he goes away and he will hers. Do I mind, most certainly not as I trust her with this man but more importantly I trust him with her. He is an artist and I actually tried to sell of piece of his to someone I knew was looking for a painting like he had created. At present though we are kind of confused as to whether to ask him to our wedding or not. He has said to her that he expects an invitation and when we first discussed it I was not that comfortable with it but I believe I was more worried about how others might view it more than how we would see it. Oh, I should also clarify that we live 2.5 hours away from each other and that is reason I'm not at party with her as have to work tomorrow. Anyway, best of luck to you and your man.
2006-08-24 15:03:42
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answered by crazylegs 7
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I would have a major problem with tha, because of past experiences. I recent;y found out my gf's ex tried to seduce her while he was drunk, and that she was fliritng with him and his friends (she's INCREDIBLY naive, so I know she didnt mean it but still). She kept the deducing thing a secret for me for about 3 months, until he started IMigng me, checking up on her current relationship *they dated in 7th, we're now going into 11th* Thats when I got suspicios, I would have minded as if she'd told me and not kept it a secret, cuz I'm friends with the dude. We're currently seperated, but thats a whole nother story, basically about me being fedd up with all the lies and deceit.
But to anser your q, I'd have a major problem with my gf talking to her ex. Sry if the story bored you, hope I helped.
2006-08-24 15:06:53
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answered by theonewhoguides 3
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yup, I sure do. I'd be moving you to a different city, because it's obvious your old bf (not ex, that's for husbands) hasn't stopped liking you.
2006-08-24 15:00:24
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm OK with it
*open relationship for yrs*
2006-08-24 14:58:23
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answered by drumrb0y 5
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i would have a problem with it because i saw the first answer to ur question before i answered
2006-08-24 15:09:16
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answered by ParadoxZero 3
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i wouldnt have a problem cuz me and my exes are all friends.....the only bad thing about it is sometimes.....we have sex aaaahahhhh1!!
2006-08-24 14:58:17
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answered by META-4-RIC 4
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You splite up with him so leve him along.
What are you trying to prove ?
2006-08-24 15:03:49
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answered by scsriver 4
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i would have a serious problem
2006-08-24 14:58:30
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answered by LOLLERSKATEZ 2
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