........dont know what to do anymore?

Question

My gf is mad at me and wants to break up with me.............she isnt calling me........the reason for this is she saw my picture on hotornot.com..........what the hell....thats not a dating site...........she got so pissed off...and never wants 2 speak 2 me

i gave her my email and pass so she can check my email cuz she doesnt trust me....and one email said ur hotornot picture has been approved...so thats how

i even called a flower delivery service to delivery 1 dozen roses 2 her house.................

Answer 1

It's over.

Ignore her maybe she'll come back on her own but if she doesn't then at least you didn't make a fool out of yourself.

Answer 2

Obviously very frustrating and hard to take. The focus is on you, not her. My focus is on you. How are you doing, while she figures out how to deal. The focus is on you. Your gesture of affection with the roses is - elegant. Whether or not she responds to it, or happens to notice there is absolutely nothing - repeat, nothing - wrong with anything which you have done here, I have seen that website and it is basically a site for establishing friendships and meeting new people which is one of the healthiest things in the world for anyone to be doing these days, as our technology and computers and all tend to alienate and disconnect people, one from another... I congratulate you for reaching out to others, for sending the roses, for being who you are and for the value you have to others and especially to yourself and that during this whole little episode you will remember all your good qualities and all the things you do right every day of your life and not lose perspective here that all those good things can never in any way even murmur or nudge themselves close to thinking of your actions as wrong or inappropriate. It is my hope your friend will find something more substantial to find fault with than an assumption based upon her own idea of something else. She stands to lose a very caring and loving human being from her life. Good luck to you in every way, and do not blame yourself for even a second. You are golden. Sent to you with a big hug from Chris in South Portland, Maine. (I am 63 years old.)

Answer 3

Ok, if she cant trust you and gets mad about a picture you had on hotornot then she is crazy and you need to get out of the relationship....find someone who is more mellow and chill about stuff...

<3

Answer 4

Sounds like she is being unreasonable. If she is doing this over a hot or not picture, what is she going to do in the future. Maybe its best to end the relationship. There are tons of other girls out there that are not so insecure.

Answer 5

Sounds like that's the best you can do, you have to be able to explain the hotornot thing to her. Hopefully she'll come around.

Answer 6

Give her some time to cool off,and send her a letter via email, or better yet send her a poem a real tear jerker and sit back and relax!

Answer 7

she is dumd she doesnt know that she is gonna miss out on a man like u cuz not a lot of guys send flowers to there gurl to apologize.. let her go..she will come back if she opens her eyes and realizes how much u really love her..

Answer 8

You know, you don't have to put up with a prison warden as a girlfriend. If you choose to, that's fine, but you have to realize that if you want to stay remotely happy, you have to admit you're whipped and ask permission before you do anything remotely questionable.

Answer 9

if you girlfirend wants to break up with you then let her i bet that you will find th right person one day and i am sure you can do better hope all works out!
Always, lauren

Answer 10

Yeah. Did you hear the Internet's new slogan?
"15 years of destroying relationships!"