My gf is mad at me and wants to break up with me.............she isnt calling me........the reason for this is she saw my picture on hotornot.com..........what the hell....thats not a dating site...........she got so pissed off...and never wants 2 speak 2 me
2006-08-24 14:36:55 · 34 answers · asked by willie_wally 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i gave her my email and pass so she can check my email cuz she doesnt trust me....and one email said ur hotornot picture has been approved...so thats how
2006-08-24 14:38:54 · update #1
It's over.
Ignore her maybe she'll come back on her own but if she doesn't then at least you didn't make a fool out of yourself.
2006-08-25 20:03:13 · answer #1 · answered by Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY did you post your pic on the internet? Typically it means that you are on the "hunt", correct? If you were a model, then that may be seen as different because your looks would be your skill/sales. But, it is not wise to get involved in anything that advertises you to other females anymore, if you're in a committed relationship. Yank or block the pic if you can or replace it with some other pic and get yourself out of this mess. Don't register with any dating sites, either, even if only for entertainment when you are bored. The internet is not a toy. Get off for a while and just concentrate on repairing the damage you have done. Keep your nose clean if you want to keep quality women in your life. Be patient. If she really loves you, keep persuing her gently, expressing regrets and showing patience with her when she spouts off, cries, or looses her temper. Just keep chasing her until she comes about. If she doesn't return to you, do not blame HER, but see it as a lesson for yourself.
My best to you!
2006-08-24 14:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously your girlfriend has some major insecurity problems and doesnt trust you at all. To me that isnt good in a relationship..now let me ask you this was the picture kinda sexy and provacative. I know if my fiancee had a pic with his **** off or trying to be sexy i would be pissed to but not to the extent she is...your girl is wack
2006-08-24 14:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by DrakeE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, I'd have to ask why she was on there. And whether its considered a dating site or not, its about judging whether people think you are hot or not, right? Well, that should be something your girlfriend does, not the whole world. You should only be worried about what your girlfriends opinion is, not other girls.
2006-08-24 14:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm hotornot.com... were you naked or half dressed
are you hot or not this is the question :)
i guess she was looking for an excuse to break up
move on m8 if she really had feelings for you and trusted you to start with you would be still together :)
2006-08-24 14:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you you told a friend that you thought she was so hot that you didn't know why she was with you then the friend said hey your hot too ....if you don't believe it go to hot or not and I'll bet you $5.00 they say you are..It's a bet. Don't get in the habit of lying to girls to save your rear though. Always ask yourself before you .do something if you would want her doing it
2006-08-24 14:43:56 · answer #6 · answered by Peanut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds uncool. People should not freak out about that petty stuff. My boyfriend put his pic up on that site and I didn't think anything of it...maybe you should go out with a super nice girl like me. We live in Northern Cali. Come visit.
2006-08-24 14:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds a like she's in your business if she's surfing the internet for your picture. Also, how is she supposed to break up with you if she won't talk to you? Sounds like she is being real immature about the whole situation.
2006-08-24 14:40:09 · answer #8 · answered by dumbblonde558 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right hot or not isn't a dating site, but the point is that she thinks you did something wrong here and she probably isn't going to change her mind anytime soon, so if u really want to keep her find away to do it. do something nice for her i mean something thoughtful. tell her your really sorry and take your picture off hot or not... besides if your happy with her and she thinks your hot it doesn't matter what other girls think.. right?
2006-08-24 14:44:46 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful that you found out before you wasted any more time on her. Have a beer, a couple shots of Jager, and go find a new one...unless, of course you weren't hot, then I guess ya gotta keep her.
2006-08-24 14:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by intoxicatedturtle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋