A few months ago I posted a question about my dilema regarding my posiblibly of having a genetic disease. I couldn't decide if I should break up with my boyfriend if my tests came back positive or if I should give him the option.
I decided to let my boyfriend choose. We are still together and I'm still waiting on my results.
The thing is now he want's me to meet the rest of his family ad he won't take no for answer. My sibblings and some of myolder relatives have been nosing around as well.
This is all making me quite nervous.
I would like to meet his family and friends and for him to meet mine eventually.
So I don't understand why it's bugging me. Maybe it's because we have been taking about where we want to go with our relationship.
I don't know maybe I just have commitment issues.
Is it normal to get this nervous abotu meetig your boyfriend's family or for him to meet yours? What's your opinion?
2006-08-24 14:30:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, it's normal--as normal as it gets. Nervousness about meeting family will do it big time. And more understandable given the "thing" that's hanging over your head. Sorry about that. It's got to be a major league pain. Let me add that your question makes me think you are a PEACH of a person!!
2006-08-24 14:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Very normal. Sometimes due to insecurities, feelings of low self worth, or doubts about relationship. No matter what though eventually if you two are to stay together you're going to have to meet each other's families. Why not take the plunge and who knows everyone might just get along great. What's to lose?
2006-08-24 21:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes , but unnecessary. Remember meet the parents. Relax
2006-08-24 21:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of coarse it is natural to be nervous about meeting his family. Just do it and get it over with. Best of luck.
2006-08-24 21:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to be nervous, but it means a lot to him, and he's standing by you, so give it up and meet them
2006-08-24 21:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you always get nervous meeting family for the first time.
2006-08-24 21:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its normal to be nervous about meeting the parents. You will be fine. Relax and be you!!!
2006-08-24 21:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well its normal to be nervous...
when meeting your partners family anv vice versa...
but always remember that you love your partner because of th eway he is or she is not because of their family background...
im sure you are worried about what his family members might think about you..well thats normal...
just be yourself stay cool and calm...remember one thing ur going to get married to the guy not his family.....treat them with respect though....coz you cant command respect you gotta earn it...i hope this answers yor uquestio none way or another..
2006-08-24 21:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by DonnyD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is verry normal. it's kind of like taking things further in a relationship. what i suggest is that you don't stress about the way you feel and just try to overcome it. don't rush either, do things when you're ready.
2006-08-24 21:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by jro 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are always gonna be things that can cause problems. do you want to be together? i think that is the only question you should worry about.
2006-08-24 21:37:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋