My boyfriend doesn't call me everyday and says he is too busy or too tired to go out. when he comes over he ignores me and watches tv until it gets dark. he won't look at me or touch me. then he turns into that sweet, talkative, loving guy I like at night. Everytime I want to go out, hes always to tired. I talked to him about it and he says theres just nothing to talk about. hes just tired in the daytime and hes sorry. should I keep trying to make things work or let him go? I don't think he just wants sex because we talked about it and he takes things slow. why is he so different in the daytime?
2006-08-24 14:29:31 · 13 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl thats so easy he's not gettin sex!! he's hittin' someone else.. Sorry to say but you need to let him go cuz if you tring and he's not then whats the point of holding on to something thats not there!! I work over 60 hours a week and i still have time for my girl. I call her at my job to see how shes doing. I also stop by her house when i get off work and stuff so hey. He can't say he's tired. Thats just being sorry!!! I could be your man!lol!! And taking things slow do you know what he's doing?
2006-08-24 14:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by verobeachanthony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, he obviously doesn't think of you as his girlfriend.... and are just using you for sex... My bf work 12 hours a day and he takes the time to call me at least once a day just to say hi or just to hear my voice and when he came home from work tired as hell .... he still take the time to even cook with me [ I'm a bad cooker] and cuddle with me watching a movie... Sure you guys talk about it but guys could easily bluff off just to make you satisfy and to get the easy way out which is to make you like what he said...
2006-08-24 21:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being used. There's nothing there in the relationship except the sex, and that's all he wants - no need to be talkative 'til it's time to think about the main event.
Dump him or charge him by the hour, because that's how he's treating you, sugar.
2006-08-24 21:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by TechnoMom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's tired from his daytime girlfriend. Something is up with this guy! If you can't trust him and have questions about his behavior, you'd better move on. He's hiding something from you, honey.
2006-08-24 21:32:24 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went out with guys like that. Guess what? They jerked me around and then dumped me. Get rid of him. He's making excuses for being too tired. It won't get better. Dump him before he dumps you. If he really likes you, he'll be awake when he's around you. Whenever I love someone, I am awake out of respect. He's taking you for granted. Trust me, it seriously won't get better...just worse. Save yourself the heartache and dump him before he starts screwing around on you and breaks up with you for not being 'exciting enough' for him. Dump him!
2006-08-24 21:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares why he's acting this way?!?!?! THe important thing is why are you letting him?!?! Sounds like he's using you. Tell him how it makes you feel. If he doesn't change, move on. No one deserves to be treated like that.
2006-08-24 21:37:53 · answer #6 · answered by kajasue123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i am going though the samething and i dont knoe any gril who understand their boyyfriend but if you dont think that is not worth it then just leave him but talk to him and tell him how you feel when he does that but all i can tell you is that do what you want to do trust your heart.
2006-08-24 21:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he ready to come out of the closet?
2006-08-24 21:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by slikk pikka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is soooo beyond weird!!! I have no idea what to tell you, besides the fact you need to tell him how much this bugs you...and fast....before things get's between you two....
2006-08-24 21:33:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm going through the same thing basicly.. if you wanna talk get a hold of me.
2006-08-24 21:32:08 · answer #10 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋