what do i do??/?

Question

i love cheeleading its my life that and my boyfriend there is nothing more important to me. well my bf only likes football cheerleading for me cuz he is in football. yeah i no football player and cheerleader ok. so ne ways i wanna do basketball and competion too but he doesnt want me to and i no it would make him happy if i didnt and i love makin him happy cuz then he makes me happy but i still love cheerleading and im like awesome at it. so plz gimme some advice--(we have been dating for over a year)

Answer 1

If he really loves you. He will support you in the decisions you make.

Answer 2

You need to help him understand that there are things that you like and you want to do them. You are your own person. He shouldn't be telling you what to do and how to do. To me this is a BIG red flag. This is telling me is wants to be in control of your life. Do you really want him to direct your life on what you want? I know I wouldn't. I'm sorry but your still in high school. You should be able to do what you want. Play whatever sports you want. He should want you to do a sport that you want. Just because he plays football doesn't mean you can only cheerlead for football. Cheerleader's normally cheer for both sports. I mean hello he should know this. Girl get your own mind. If he can't respect that then there's a problem.

Answer 3

Time to up the dosage on your medications again, sweetie!

Me personally, I would let you cheer 24 hours a day as long as some of that school spirit came out in the bedroom.

So, to recap:
1) Up the meds 2) Dump stupid and hop a bus to my little corner of paradise.

Rah, rah, sis boom bah!

Answer 4

do whatever you want. If he cares about you he will get over it and everything will be fine.
p.s. If your giving him that great sex then he will do whatever you want to be honest.