Should i let this person keep one of my kittens?

Question

So my dads friend that is poor wants to keep one of my 6 kittens. They are good people.....but they are poor......which means they wont have hardly any money if they even have any! Im not trying to be rude. I just want these kittens to be able to eat and drink and have some toys and a nice place to sleep. My dad is leaning toward giving them one, But he knows that i am the one that decides. I made that very clear to him today.
So what do you think? Should i give them one or not?

I know f they will not be able to give the kittens vactinations.....They might not even be able to take it if the kitten is sick!!

They arent good about financing their money at all. The husband takes out loans all the time, so they are in so much dept

Answer 1

If you decide to give them a kitten, give them a starter pack with the cat including a bag of food, some toys, etc.

Answer 2

Part of the responsibility that goes with adopting a pet is accepting the cost of medical care. Vaccinations, spaying or neutering, treatment for the occasional illness and possible accident, all must be considered. If someone's not in a position to take on that responsibility, they're not in a position to adopt a pet.

It's people like that who wind up dumping their pets at a shelter as soon as something goes wrong, even if they're basically good people, because they can't afford to treat the problem. And few will consider adopting a sick or injured animal from a shelter. You know how that usually ends.

I think you're reluctance to adopt out your kitten to someone who's not prepared to properly care for it is wise and commendable. Being "good people" won't get kitty treated if s/he gets sick or hurt and they don't have any money.

I read an excellent suggestion about finding homes for kittens. Even if they're just "mutts," don't give them away. Sell them. Set a price that will cover exams and kitten care, preliminary shots, neutering, and so on, and maybe more. You could pre-pay for any of the medical stuff that isn't done before you adopt them out and arrange with the vet practice to do the work when the kittens are ready. The idea is to weed out anyone who's not willing or able to spend money on their pet.

Answer 3

I know you are only interested in what is best for the kitten. In your heart you know these people won't be good pet owners. So I say don't give them the kitten. I have seen too many animals go to homes where they only want it if it isn't costing them money. They don't sound like they could afford the basic needs of a pet. Vet bills are expensive and if they don't have the kitten fixed then there will be more kitties for them to feed if it is female and if it is a male and not fixed then it will be out fighting and surely need vet care. Some say send a bag of food. What happens when that is gone and they have no money for the next bag of food. They don't need a pet they can't care for.

Answer 4

If they can't afford yearly vaccinations then no. Animals need basic care: food, shelter, yearly vaccinations and medical care in case of an emergency. Also spaying or neutering the animal. You should go to your local vet and get the cost of what it will be to spay or neuter and yearly needed vaccinations and then sit down and talk to the people. Tell them that you are concerned and not trying to be mean. You love this kitten and you like them and want to make sure they know the financial responsibilities involved in owning a pet. Have you dad go with you and help. Then together figure out if it is possible or not for them to afford and properly care fo the kitten for life.

Answer 5

That is a very hard desision. The cat has to be well taken care of. They eat alot and they have alot of energy. If they are really passionate about getting a cat, give it to them but, if they have a child or if they really can't afford it don't. If they have a child the money used on the cat should have been used on the child. I think it is better off if you keep the cat because you know that you can take care of it than worry that the cat is not taken care of and could be very sick. It would be very bad if you found out later that the cat died, ran away, or got sent to an animal shelter or even the pound. You would be mad because you trusted them to take care of it and they didn't. You should keep it. trust me I know. Good Luck. I hope that you make the right desision.

Answer 6

Give them the kitten. But make sure to send some food and stuff with it. This thing happens all the time. Since it is your father's friend you can check on it. Any of the other kittens that get new homes could be going to even poorer familys. This is a good way to watch this kitten!

Answer 7

Are there any low-cost or no-cost vets or shelters around you? If so, find out if your dad's friends would qualify. If they do, then go for it.

Honestly, I have never let finances equate capability for caring for a pet. However, I have always found low cost care for the pets BEFORE they were adopted. I have also helped with finances myself if I am able to. My own finances now can only afford the pets we have, so I can't help anyone right now.

Whatever you decide, be sure you feel 100% comfortable with it. Aside from money, how are they with pets? Do they let their other pets roam the neighborhood, buy proper food for them, love them and do their best to keep them safe, healthy and happy? Consider all of these before you decide.

Best of luck!

TDK

Answer 8

Maybe not.
You don't want to hear months from now that the kitten ran away or some other horror story.
Maybe tell them that the kitten is promised to someone else.
Ask your father more questions about his friend and what he thinks.
Go with your gut.
Try to find some elderly lady or someone who lives alone.
If you do decide to let them have this baby,then insist on a little payment.
Its odd that what often is given away is not cherished,and sometimes libel to be thrown away.

Answer 9

Hi. If you have to ask yourself this question, then your gut is telling you NOT to adopt a kitten to this man. So, go with your gut. You will find responsible, loving homes for these kittens. It may take longer than if you just handed them out. But, it's worth the wait. The kitties will thank you and you'll feel better about yourself.

Answer 10

Don't worry, kittens do not need "nemann marcus" cat towers and tiffany food dishes, or mink mice... They will love your kitten and give it a good home. That is the best thing for it! Also, most humane societies have a program for low income shots and neutering.