what should i do??

Question

ok so my bf and i have been together for over a year. well i work with one of his friends at my job, and he has a crush on me. well we were jokin around one day (cuz i joke with everyone) and he told be he would hit a girl and i was like yea ok then he tapd me on my cheek and i jokingly said ow--so then he kissed me and said "i hope that made it feel better" and i was so shocked that i just kinda laughed and left now i dont no if i should tell my bf or not. cuz i dont want him to be mad at me

Answer 1

That guy sounds like a total jerk and he did it just to "hit" on you.

Tell your bf and lose the loser you work with.

Answer 2

Ok that is so cute. How come a guy can't do that to me!!

Ok so what to do. You could tell your bf, but I think you should probally talk to the guy who kissed you. You need to tell him that it made you feel a little uncomfortable because your obviously with someone who he is friends with. If it happens again then I would mention something to your bf. But try to deal with things first on your own and if that doesn't work go get the big dog ...lol

Man I'm still thinking about the little tap and the kiss...how cute! Oh I have a question did you like that kiss?? Did you kiss back??
Did it make you say "more please"? lol Tell just wondering.

Answer 3

Tell your man, girl. He should know how scandalous his boy is. I grew up with a lot of guys, so keep this in mind. Your man could have asked him to make a move on you to see what you would do, and if you don't let him know it happened he might think that you liked it. Or maybe your man's friend already told your boyrfriend because guys aren't as finicky about that stuff as girls are. Just be honest, it's always the best thing. Let what happens happen, just don't get caught being the liar.

Answer 4

lol yeah ur boyfriend might get mad, but not at you. But it's not that big of a deal to get kissed on the cheek because many cultures do that as a greeting. I just wouldn't say anything about it. It's not like ur lying to him or anything. If the guy u work wih keeps it up tho, then u might wanna say something to ur boyfriend or tell the guy who does it to knock it off.

Answer 5

Tell him, and tell him the whole story...the same thing happened to me but the guy kissed me on the lips...my boyfriend got mad at him, not at me.....if you have been with him for over a year you should be totally honest with him....

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Answer 6

That is a tough one, honey. I would be honest about it. The worst thing to do is lie. What if homeboy tells your boyfriend but bend the truth a little? Then you look like shady because you kept it to yourself which might cause him to believe his "boy" over you. come clean. he may get mad but at least you don't have it on your conscience.
Put yourself in his position

Answer 7

You bf will not be happy if you tell him, so just don't say anything, flirting is a fact of life. If you are getting a little creeped out by someone flirting, you need to handle it.

Answer 8

definetely tell ur guy. it seems like the lil kiss made that situation uncomfort able. so would u rather tell him ur self, or have the other guy go around making up rumors about how u made out with him and u made the move first...
you pick

Answer 9

he shouldn't be mad at you, you didn't ask the guy to kiss you. By joking do you mean flirting, that is what it sounds like. Don't tell him unless he kisses you again or something

Answer 10

Id go with cats4ever2k1 on this no point making a a drama into a crisis