I got out of a relationship not that long ago. He cheated and lied. Said he understood that I wanted to wait and was okay with it. He said he had always wanted someone like that. And he said thats one of the reasons he wanted to be with me. Guess he really wanted a hoe instead.
2006-08-24 13:55:40 · 12 answers · asked by flaka_817_26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't give up...you'll find the one!
2006-08-24 13:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look here. Just move on, and here's why: you are missing nice guys worrying about a jerk. You are lucky. you could have married him and found out. But learn something, and take the time to find a quiet, descent guy, and remember, he may not have a lot of chrome, or be lit with neon, he's just a human. He will DO things more than say things. He will volunteer and help people.
The jerks will find you, because they really only do want one thing.
http://www.volunteermatch.org
Okay?
2006-08-24 21:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by helixburger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are Baffling... Don't waste your time thinking what he did and did not want. Now that you are out of a relationship get to know yourself, do the things you like to do, see the movies you like and eventually start dating with an open mind. Read the book "IN the Meantime" By Iyanla Great book!!!!!
Good luck and remember "Every Hardship is a lesson in disguise
2006-08-24 20:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by Vanessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to have the same problems, but now I just wait on God to send my man. Because if God send him then I know for sure that he respect the fact that I am different and loves the fact that I want to save myself for marriage or just wait. He will love u for that and know that u are the one for him, because he knows that he really want a women that wants to wait, and he not just lying and just trying to see how long it will take for him to get it, Because it seems that way for the one u was just with if he could'nt resepect u enough to wait with u and not for u and then got tried. So just wait and don't let no one pressure u to do something that u don't want to do because it is guys who would love that u respect yourself, Believe it I'm a witness.
2006-08-24 21:28:53 · answer #4 · answered by msc112485 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that. It would be better to at least be honest than to hurt someone.
Thank you for having self-respect...there aren't enough of you out there today. Me, I'd either send you home straight away or court you for marriage, that's what real men do.
2006-08-24 21:00:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You 've got it...you've figured out the masculine approach. Good luck, you're so much better off without this guy.
2006-08-24 20:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by Laura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i alot of guys like that and the reason you dont see them is cuz u think they are nerdy or your to good for them...
2006-08-24 21:00:03 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley010 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you respect yourself, because us guys sure won't.
Women that wait for sex are lame...period!
2006-08-24 21:04:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is that people say one thing and want another. men and women do it.
2006-08-24 20:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all guys will say that hoping it will make you give in and if it dont work they cheat and lie its just how they are
2006-08-24 21:00:30 · answer #10 · answered by josie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Where they always are.
No, seriously, STOP dating such total losers.
2006-08-24 20:57:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋