Ok my best friend has a boyfriend. there realtionship is what i want...he is so romantic and fun. I guess i just haven't found this guy yet. i feel like it is holding me back in life and i really can't do anything about it what sould i do??
2006-08-24 13:55:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't need a guy for you to get on with your life !! How idiotic could you be ? You don't need a man for a clutch ! You need self esteem....this is why guys don't want you...you are too needy and desperate, that only makes them use you and then run away...so stop looking, stop being so needy and desperate for a man and then he might come !
Stand up proud and have dignity become a strong woman and then you might attract someone.
Oh and quit envying your friends man ! Jealousy is an awful trait to have !
2006-08-24 13:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Yame ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to find the right partner is to become very comfortable with yourself and your place in life. Once you are sure of who you are and who you want to be, you will find the right guy.
Honestly, there is nothing more unattractive than desperation, and when you feel like you do, you come across as desperate. Everyone has been there, so please don't take that personally. It's just the only way to explain what you need to do.
It really works. Stop looking, and be happy with where you are in your life now, and the right boyfriend will come along.
2006-08-24 20:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by FozzieBear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find things you like to do and go out. You will eventually find someone or someone will find you. You will also right off the bat have things in common and something to talk about! Real love comes from where you least expect it.
2006-08-24 20:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somewhere out there, there's a great guy for you. Keep your chin up, and never frown because you'll never know when a guy is falling in love with your smile.
Hmmm... come to think of it... I'm single and looking for the right girl myself... la di dum dee doo dah... :)
2006-08-24 20:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by appletech089 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are letting it hold you back. Get comfortable with yourself, and the right guy will eventually come along, so don't settle for any ole guy.
2006-08-24 20:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start making more guy friends and maybe one will start liking you then you know the rest... If you don't want to do that just wait for the right guy to come
2006-08-24 20:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by ☼♫☆☺♡♥☺☆♫☼ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because you are LOOKING. Stop looking, enjoy yourself, enjoy life and believe me.....he will pop into your life . Seriously. Good luck and happy getting to know yourself and your likes, dislikes and remember to do unto others as you would like done to you.....and love will come.
Take care, Cyndi
2006-08-24 21:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by lykes2win 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, u r having the same problem as me. sometimes we do know our true love or this so called right guy.. but theres no such thingsas true love or right guy. its up too u and this guy too make things rite. as long u both care and love each othere theres nthing to worry about. he will soon, pity mine wasnt the one i was with...
2006-08-24 20:57:46 · answer #8 · answered by beautyprincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything Worth while is Worth waiting for, if you don't and you rush things you are apt to have to settle for something that you really didn't want and also you might want to take a look again, your true love might just be under your nose
2006-08-24 20:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by joy t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know i havent found the right girl.i want her to be compatible in my thinking but sadly many girls have been lost in lust and thats not what i look for but hey maybe theyll come one who is open minded and will learn from me and i learn from her.
2006-08-24 20:58:11 · answer #10 · answered by lightangellion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋