I broke up with my boyfriend because he cheated on me, and now, all i think about is him. I dont want to let him go, but i know that if u cheated u must have love the other person to be with them, so i still belive he is still inlove with this other girl.. even though he said they are over. i know i shud move on, but i waited for so long and now i lose him i feel like i could wait another lifetime for him to be with me again... I love him and i deeply dont want to be hurt, i know every body deserves a second chance, cause he gave me one and im still trying make up for it.. but i cant now cause we are over. so please, help with some serious answers......
2006-08-24 13:48:46 · 7 answers · asked by beautyprincess 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen, this relationship doesn't seem like it's going anywhere. No offense, I'm sure you care about each other, but he cheated on you and nothing can really say "I don't love you!" as much as a gesture like that. You're going to still think about him, of course, but I think it'll be best for the both of you if you just stop being together and try and move on. He gave you a 2nd chance? If that was because you cheated, then definitley break-up, though I recommend you do anyway - this seems quite truly doomed.
Saying that, maybe you should sit down and talk about everything and how you both feel before you make any final decisions. Remember, I can only comment on what you've told me and I don't know what you guys are like and how close you are.
Though, I normally say - you broke up with him, so, you obviously did it for a reason.
Good luck.
2006-08-24 13:54:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once someone cheats, the trust that the two of you had is gone forever. There is nothing that he can say or do and vice versa that is going to bring it back. Once someone in a relationship cheats, it's a self-destructive path that you are set on. You say that you don't want to get hurt, so you just need to move on and find someone that won't cheat on you.
2006-08-24 20:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was the other girl a one night stand or did he have a previous relationship with her?
Was the second chance he gave you b/c you cheated on him?
Without knowing those two factors I can not provide you with a substantial response.
2006-08-24 20:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay im going through the same thing right now...i have a feeling he is going to break up with me cause i dont trust him that much anymore but he loves me deeply and i love him deeply but its like there is a hole between us........i would say notice all the other cute guys around u
2006-08-24 20:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by my_emo_romance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a LOSER and if you keep chasing him, you'll only be a bigger loser. Find some one else, unless you think you're nothing but trash, then go back to your loser bf.
You're better than him, he f'd up, not you. Unless you're like 45 and about to lose your last eggs, you have plenty of time time to find "the one". This guy is CERTIFIED JACKA$$.
2006-08-24 20:57:45 · answer #5 · answered by Ann_Tykreist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez, just forget him and move on. Your relationship sounds like it is really destructive. As soon as people start cheating there is no relationship left.
2006-08-24 20:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by Kylie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were meant to be together then you would of been. waiting for him is not good . and you need to get on with it and move on.
2006-08-24 20:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋