Once this "friend-girl" and I were talking about working out and during the conversation she asked me how much I weighed. I told her and asked her the same question. She started crying, broke into an outrage and hasn't spoken to me since. I've though about apologizing to her, but I don't really see anything to apologize for.
2006-08-24 13:40:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
women "idealize" a look that's not normal for the majority of females- skinny and large boobs.
men really aren't that picky about a women with curves as long as she's not obese, and there's even a good size group of men who find THAT really sexy.
you should talk to her and ask her what it was that hurt her and offer an apology for not realizing that was an issue for her- what's it hurt to make peace?
2006-08-24 13:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of pressure is on now to be thin and gorgeous. Check out the women on tv, you've got to be kidding me, these women dress like this to go to work? I think not! Look at all the magazines, they're all skinny and flawless, give me a break! We're surrounded with it all and one has to be very secure to not let it bother us. I have women come into my office crying because they're overweight, I have teenagers who have coaches at school telling them to lose weight, can you believe it? Many of the "professionals" have bought into it too, it's a big bummer.
2006-08-24 21:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by trainer53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many women are crazy about their weight because society pressures us to be thin and physically perfect.
i think your friend was just having a bad day, and the only reason that she hasn't spoken to you is because she is embarrassed about her behavior. you need to approach her and say that you are confused about what happened the other day and that you hope she isn't still angry at you. most likely, she will apologize and say that she wasn't angry- she was just having a bad day (probably PMSing, but don't even bring that up!)
i've seen friendships survive thru worse.
^_^
2006-08-24 20:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by miss advice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a girls mind all she has is her looks and the skinnier you are the better you look, supposedly. She thinks she is uglier than you so she doesn't talk to you out of jealousy.
2006-08-24 20:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably liked you and wanted to be more then friends so she was watching her weight because even if it wasn't noticible she was very nervous. one day she'll thank you because she might see that weight isn't everything!!!!!! Blame it all on the preps!!! or not!!!
2006-08-24 20:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by Coochie MoMo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have anything to apologize for. she was having a bad day evidently and was full of hormones or something....she will come around.
2006-08-24 20:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by intelligentbooklady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an extreme over reaction to me. She will be ok.
2006-08-24 20:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by wag35 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thin or moderately thin is always in for females. It's a double standard. I think everyone knows this.
2006-08-24 20:51:04 · answer #8 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some-girls-behave-in-unorthodoxical-manners
2006-08-24 20:50:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋