My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months and we still haven't really done anything physically. When we first got together we would make out some. that has dwindled to nothing. he kisses me and that's about it. We talked about it around 2 months and he said he likes to wait and get to know the person. That's fine with me. But I think it's odd we haven't done ANYTHING physical and it's starting to affect me. I'm trying to be patient. I don't know what to do. Does anyone else think this is weird or have any ideas on what I should do???
2006-08-24 13:33:48 · 14 answers · asked by blueskylvr1983 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just to put it out there.. it's not the "no sex" that's bothering me.. it's the "no physical" at all...
2006-08-24 13:41:05 · update #1
Be patient with him at least if consider it this way: he isnt a slut obviously considering he didnt throw you in the sac as soon as you met right? I think it is sweet wouldnt you rather make love to your bf as opposed to being the 30th girl to just have sex with him my husband and I dated 8 months before we had sex and now are married with 4 kids and not a fight to talk about its much better to know someone your sleeping with as opposed to jupm everyones bones available isnt it?
2006-08-24 13:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how old you are, or any age for that fact,there is nothing wrong with not having any physical,physical,activity. Don't you really want to get to know this person a little bit before you deldge into intimacy. It takes time. Personally I applaud him for not going after you.You so deserve the best Life has to offer. You are worth a whole lot more than s--.Are you aware of that?Let nature take its turn. The kissing part,well that's awkward!!Are you both per suing each other? That's important. Trust your inner heart.You will know if it's right or not. We all deserve the best that Life has to offer.Definitely keep a open communication between you and your boyfriend. From the get go, always be honest.Treat others as you like to be treated. There is magic in that.You aren't weird, but for goodness sake don't go out with another person if they are still involved with someone.Good Luck......
2006-08-24 20:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by Debra M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think its kinda strange. I mean i know there are people that wait for "sex with the right person", but I'd think they know if they were with the right one in 4 months. I usually have sex on the 2nd or 3rd date and some people call me a hoe...guess its just a matter of opinion
2006-08-24 20:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by brandy_wessler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. It is good to know someone well before sex That is something ment for two peple who know and love each other. it is way to easy to give in. some self respect my dear and do not be so willing to be easy as the guys would say
2006-08-24 20:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do i care! and that is not even a question. you know little kids go on this to not just big kids like you. and i am 1 of the little kids 4 years old starty pants in the smart way.
2006-08-24 20:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd start things. Obviously he's not going to be the first one to start anything physical, so I'd pull him down on the bed, couch, floor, anything convenient and start making out with him, kiss his chest while slowly going down, you get my drift. If he still rejects, then something's wrong sweetheart. I'd move on and find someone that can please a woman's needs.
2006-08-24 20:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by Rebecca M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you should wait forever to have sex,but for now its good that your not jumping right into sex. When you finally do have sex you'll have a bond already which is a good thing.
2006-08-24 20:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he is nervous. Or doesn't know what to do next. Talk to him.
2006-08-24 21:16:08 · answer #8 · answered by witchy-girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to start because maybe he is waiting you to do the first move
2006-08-24 20:36:29 · answer #9 · answered by Max Power 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump his candy as$ and get a real man!
2006-08-24 20:35:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋