I work on a marine base and i got off work about to walk to the bus stop and this guy i'm seeing pulled up on the side of me and offered a ride but i was already close to where i needed to go so i told him not to worry about it and he gave me the most wierd look he looked a little upset was i wrong for telling him no?
2006-08-24 13:32:20 · 15 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you weren't "wrong" but he may have let it hurt his feelings a bit...perhaps he'd had something he wanted to discuss with you, or just was glad to see you and hoped to share a few moments...
Explain to him why you declined his offer...that it was because you didn't want to inconvenience him and were close to your destination...that it had nothing to do with you not wanting to spend a bit of time with him...
2006-08-24 13:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about his weird look he probably thought you didn't trust him and being on a marine base he figured you should. You did the right thing if you were already close. forget about it! he'll survive!
2006-08-24 20:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by ctryhnny04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are fron Mars. Women are from Venus. It don't matter how near you are to your destination, the guy just wants to have your company and was being nice. You thought you were not being a bother, he thought you turned his offer for being nice and thoughtful into the trash can.
2006-08-24 20:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by Totoru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl maybe that was a good answer. Did you know him? There are alot of weirdos out there. I would have said no too even if I wasn't close yet to my destination.
2006-08-24 20:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by iseestupidpeopleeverywhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what maybe he was trying to be a gentleman and when you said no maybe he was a little puzzeled . next time he offers a ride just take it. it wiil probly make him feel better.
2006-08-24 20:36:37 · answer #5 · answered by serena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your "seeing" him why wouldnt you accept the ride he was nice enough to offer you, guess you just mad him feel bad like he had cooties or something.
2006-08-24 20:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by Nani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no of course you didnt do any thing wrong he probably was some bad guy and was upset that you didnt take the lift and the weird look ...... i have no clue
2006-08-24 20:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by hannah s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to my way of thinking. Course, he may have had other things on his mind but should have handled it a bit better.
2006-08-24 20:38:43 · answer #8 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, maybe he wanted to talk to you! I'm sure he thought you were buzzing him off because it sounded like that to me and I don't even know you.
2006-08-24 20:35:38 · answer #9 · answered by Lindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably wanted to spend some time with you and when you said no, he was thinking,maybe you were tired of him.
2006-08-24 20:35:18 · answer #10 · answered by Brian L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋