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I have a guy friend who i like and he seems like he likes me too, but some days it only seems like he wants to be friends! I have played hard to get. I dont think i have givin him any signs that i like him but i dont want to tell him that and him not like me back. What should i do?

2006-08-24 12:55:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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YOU CAN'T MAKE ANYONE LIKE YOU. YOU WILL LOOK NEEDY AND DESPERATE. YOU WILL ANNOY HIM.

DON'T PLAY GAMES, EITHER. IF HE SEEMS INTERESTED, PAY MORE ATTENTION TO HIM. ADMIRE AND APPRECIATE THINGS ABOUT HIM AND TELL HIM THAT. RESPECT HIS COMFORT LEVEL AND DON'T GO GUSHING OR DUMPPING YOUR FEELINGS ON HIM. TREAT HIM LIKE HE IS REALLY IMPORTANT. THAT WILL INSPIRE HIM TO FEEL GOOD ABOUT HIMSELF WHEN HE IS AROUND YOU. HE WILL WANT YOU AROUND MORE.
YOU OBVIOUSLY HAVE FRIENDSHIP. YOU LIKE HIM, HE LIKES YOU. MAYBE HE DOESN'T LIKE YOU THE WAY YOU WANT HIM TO, AND YOU CAN GUARANTEE YOURSELF THAT IF YOU EXPECT HIM TO, YOU WILL SCARE HIM AWAY. GUYS DON'T LIKE TO TALK ABOUT EMOTIONAL STUFF. JUST RELAX AND BE KIND AND APPRECIATIVE.
GET TO KNOW HIM MORE AND THEN YOU WILL BE MORE COMFORTABLE AROUND HIM, AS WILL HE WITH YOU.
LET HIM BRING UP FELINGS, WHEN HE IS READY, AT HIS OWN PACE. WHEN HE DOES TALK ABOUT FEELINGS, WATCH TO SEE THAT HIS ACTIONS AND BEHAVIOR MATCHES HOW HE SAYS HE FEELS.

DON'T MAKE THE MISTAKES THAT YOUNG GIRLS MAKE:

1-DON'T PUT OUT TO TRY TO MAKE HIM LIKE YOU, OR MISREPRESENT YOURSELF (DON'T TRY TO SEDUCE HIM)
2-DON'T THINK YOU CAN DUMP FEELINGS ON HIM AND EXPECT HIM TO RETURN THEM (HE OWES YOU NOTHING, YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR FEELINGS)
3-DON'T MAKE EXCUSES FOR HIS BEHAVIOR

2006-08-24 13:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0 0

Why don't you try flirting? Try changing your hair, wearing makeup.
If that fails, Ask him out

2006-08-24 19:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by nandhini s 1 · 0 0

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