ok well there is this guy that iv been friends with for about 2 years and I'v liked him all summer then yesterday he asked me out i like started freaking out but of coarse i said yes then today i just liked it better when we were friends i dont know how to tell him ... all my friends say i should keep going out with him but I dont know what to do HELP
2006-08-24 12:23:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are best Friends why cant you talk now ? you and him made the mistake of looking for more than loving friends ,they are a valued commodity today , some Friends do step over the line but always step back ,because now that u are going out with him , you seem to think you can't talk as friends , chances are he feels the same way . be open you won't hurt him because if he is truly your friend he will know it just doesn't feel right and continue to be buds
2006-08-24 12:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by yvette b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow. Just because you're now "going out" doesn't mean that the relationship should radically change immediately. If he's a good guy and you like him enough to be friends for the last 2 years, having a more intimate relationship could be a great thing for you both.
2006-08-24 19:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm... this happened to me once. I liked I guy that i had been friends with and he liked me back of course and asked me out and I too was suprised but of course I said yes. But it didn't take a few days to see that being friends was much better than being a couple. I called my boyfriend and told him to met me somewhere and I told him how I felt. [ I had been praticing a speech hoping not to hurt him or myself] He was sad and so was I. But it ended up that our friendship has soared during the past few years and its great. So just tell him exactly how you feel and if he does'nt understand he's not a great boyfriend neither a a great friend.
2006-08-24 19:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too quick to judge. Give him a bit of a shot then honestly tell him how you feel. Being honest is your top priority. Good luck
2006-08-24 19:29:53 · answer #4 · answered by missyb5884 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can talk about it to him say we are better friends then "lovers or as a couple" OR if you really like him you can go out with him and who knows you could be soul mates???
2006-08-24 19:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by Adam D. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honest with him. Ignore your friends, they are giving you bad advice. don't date someone just because other think you should.
2006-08-24 19:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep going out with him..he desrves a chance!!
2006-08-24 19:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him
2006-08-24 19:24:55 · answer #8 · answered by Michael J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋