If a man loves you..why cant they handle a long distance relationship? My ex was 7 years older and I moved away to college. We stayed together for 6 months but then he said the long distance relatiionship was too hard..he wanted me to go meet new people and have fun. He couldn't let go of me though and kept on calling right after he broke up with me. to this day he still tells me he loves me. I am so confused on how he feels? why did he break up with me if he loves me so much? can some men really just not handle long distance relationships? do you think he is keeping such close contact with me because he sees hope for the future when i am older and out of college? my age was also always a big issue for him..his bro gave him **** b/c i was so much younger. any ideas on what the love of my life is thinking? i love him so much but scared to show emotions because dont want to act needy. what do you think..what should i do and what is he thinking?
2006-08-24 12:21:25 · 6 answers · asked by Tina S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you need to enjoy your life right now and let him go stay friends and the future will only tell but till then have fun enjoy life and you'll see there are so many wonderful people and adventures out there other wise later you'll regret it and remember this:
IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE SET THEM FREE
IF THEY COME BACK TO YOU THEY ARE YOURS TO KEEP
AND IF THEY DON'T THEY WERE NEVER MEANT TO BE.
2006-08-24 12:28:09 · answer #1 · answered by alexgandera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he loves you but he needs you to be close to him in order for the relationship to work. Some people are needy and they need the attention, affection, and general closeness that a relationship provides. At least he is being honest with you about how he feels.
2006-08-24 19:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are like that they can't handle long distance relationships. Some women are like that to. I would like a long distance relationship then I would not have to put up with my men bothering me.
2006-08-24 19:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by Christy H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ask yourself how much are you 2 willing to sacrafice to stay together,,you 2 need to communicate and make a desion
and move forward,not stuck in the muck,,pull urself out.lfe is 2 short to be pineing away and wishing
2006-08-24 19:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying the nice way to tell you that he is finished with your relationship and that it's time to move on..So don't waste your time waiting for him... move on and find a relationship closer to you . Good luck
2006-08-24 19:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by leta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick a fork in it ITS DONE
2006-08-24 19:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋