Ok I think my cousin likes me. He is allways touching me. He will touch my back, hold my arms, and put his leg next to mine. He is all ways looking out for me. Like I'm a child but I'm a teenager. Making sure I dont get hurt and things. I get really tired of it. We are really good friends and we hang out with each other alot and have fun. He's all way making my laugh. But somtimes he gets to close to me. I dont want to tell him to back off. And hes my cousin for pette sake. And his older brother wich is only a few years older than me keeps looking at me and so dose his friends. I dont feel good about this and i really dont feel like telling and adult. But how do I know he likes me.
2006-08-24 12:20:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is wrong so he probably does not like you in that way.
2006-08-24 12:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by The original John Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if you live in the mountains of West Virginia this is normal, but to the rest of the country that's just WRONG. Gross. Your cousin? Nasty. I love my cousins and we're like brothers and sisters. And the thought of looking at them romantically or sexually just turns my stomach.
Aren't there any boys OUTSIDE YOUR FAMILY that you find attractive? Get out a little more sweetie.
Get off that mountain and find a guy with teeth.
2006-08-24 19:25:05 · answer #2 · answered by ACK & DJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably fancies you. I would avoid the physical contact. If he moves in too close back away a little bit. You two are related and that makes this incest if it is pursued. Just keep your distance. If that doesn't work talk to him about it. I mean your cousins. Just say, "I would prefer if I had a little more personal space when we hang out. At times I feel you get a little too close to me."
2006-08-24 19:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by coolchick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
According to what you said about your cousin, that's creepy. Do you have any feelings for your cousin? I would ask your cousin, what the deal is? If you don't feel comfortable when your cousin gets close to you, let him know. Keep your eyes open he might want something more than just being your cousin.
2006-08-24 19:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by Chicana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of kissing cousins? We'll it's just where you have a little fun but not really mess around.. If you are really worried about it talk to a close friend or relative. It may not be anything but brotherly love.
2006-08-24 19:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by smiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell an adult. What your cousin is doing is highly inappropriate, considering your his cousin. If he makes you feel uncomfortable, why do you hang out with him and say you guys have alot of fun? You should tell him if he makes you uncomfortable, but please tell an adult. Listen to your intuition, that's what is telling you this isn't quite kosher.
2006-08-24 19:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not touching u in a sexual way, then I wouldn't worry. He probably just wants to look after u like a big brother
2006-08-24 19:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by bicheeeened30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a boyfriend, bring him around your cousin and tell ure bf that u love him all the time in front of ure cuz
or just tell him to back off and u dont need his help
2006-08-24 19:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my cousin looks out 4 me and maybe this cousin of yours just wants to protect you and if uy feel uncomfortable about him touching you, then tell him and if he doesnt stop tell his mom or your mom
2006-08-24 19:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This does not sound good!! You need to talk with an adult about this! I don't think you are safe with them anymore. Please talk to your parents or another adult close to you.
2006-08-24 19:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by tas-okay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMMM...ITS PROBABLY A GOOD IDEA TO TELL HIM OFF AND THEN TELL YOUR PARENTS. DON'T WAIT TOO LONG. BAD THINGS MIGHT HAPPEN.
2006-08-24 19:24:09 · answer #11 · answered by Trinity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋