When things go wrong in your life why do they always come in clusters?

Question

It seems when something goes wrong with my life or with whatever, everything starts going wrong.... like my husband and I have been having issues, my washer broke today the water pipe busted today, and last night our battery in our car went completely dead and we had to get another battery today.. why is it when something bad happens everything starts going badly and when there are good things happening, everything starts going good... why does it happen like that lol... its like someone has it out for me or something lol...life just seems full of cruel irony... does this happen to anyone else or is it just me?

guess what my daughters pet rabbit died tonight as well...I told you lol... I think fate has a vendetta against me or something...sigh*

Answer 1

Sweetie it's a thing called Murphy's Law which means:

Whatever could go wrong, will go wrong, It's life and once we have hit the bottom of that bucket, there's only one way out and that is is up....We pray put it in the hands of a higher power, I was once told this advice and now I pass it on to you.......

If you are going to pray about, then don't worry about it..
If you are going to worry about it, then don't pray about it,
what will be, will be there will better times okay....Best Wishes..

Answer 2

I hear what your saying and I often ask the very same question myself, however after much thought on this I believe that when we go through a bad patch, whatever the initial scenario we tend to focus on everything else that's going wrong, we are so upset and down that we only see the negative things and all of this adds up and seems to outweigh the pros. If for instance it was any other day and say the washer broke yeah it would be annoying but we would get it fixed if we werent in a bad patch we wouldn't focus on it we would get it fixed and forget about say breaking a glass that day, thus it wouldn't add up. Hope I made sense. x

Answer 3

It's Murphy's Law.... You take one step forward and get 10 slaps backswards. It's just life !! When something good happens expect the worse to happen to. It's like Yin and Yan . But for me l think l was born under the Bad luck sign. I got a full time job, only to be fired 7 weeks later. Life sux. Life is cruel and misery dwells on us all. Sometimes you just want to hide under the bed and never get out for you expect the worse is waiting around the corner. Maybe you can try carrying garlic around with you.. Fight off the evil bad luck that follows you around.

Answer 4

You're just temporarily in a bad flow. I think it happens to lots of people, it does to me anyway and to my friends. Don't worry, you'll get into the good flow soon enough. And when other things start going right again, you don't mind the little thing that go bad so much.

Answer 5

The same thing happens to me. I also have said to my friends and family why does this always happen good or bad one after the other.All you could do is go with the flow and make the best of it.

Answer 6

If you believe in that kind of thing the stars.
There are just times that are unfortunate.

By the way your husband is a lucky guy you are soo pretty.
Even if your hard to get allong with or something.
Just saying...

I hope things get better I'm sure they will.

Answer 7

Sure thats true.but they appear in clusters becaues "what your mind belives is what your body accomplishes".So see things like you want them to be.This will trun your wheel on the right direction automatically.So remember think positive to make life positive.

Answer 8

99and 9/10 they seem to never end.. Best thing I found is tuck your tail between your legs and just do the very best you can, What more can we do...Sure be no one will take them away...Good Luck Sweety, your friend from Tennessee...ROB

Answer 9

Trouble comes in threes is how the old saying goes. I have no clue why, but yes, it does seem to happen that way.

Answer 10

It's all a test, Sweetie.

When Life knocks you to your knees.....

it's time to pray!!