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I am an older guy who needs advice.
I am being hit on by a much younger girl. She tells me that she wants to have sex with me ... once and only once. No strings. No crap.
Believe me, I don't get it either. I'm no great looker and this girl is hot. Why would she want me? Is she just playing with me or is she serious?
She has told me that she'll come to my apartment any time I give the word.
Should I follow my head or my penis?

2006-08-24 12:14:54 · 14 answers · asked by Bugsy Groucho 4 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Just to clarify. She is over twenty-one.

2006-08-24 12:21:38 · update #1

14 answers

You must call her and let her come over. Stop being so down on yourself, she is obviously interested, for whatever reason. She's interested, soooooo pick up the phone. Call her right now, just think how good thats gonna feel in so many different ways. :) Good Luck.

2006-08-24 13:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I don't know why she would play with your head about this. Sounds to me like she's serious and wants to get with you. Guess she wants to be with an older man. She's chose you. Don't look for all the reasons why she chose you. She has and if she's really 21 and she has not problem with it. Make sure you use protection sounds kind of like a slut to me though. If you don't mind that. But don't expect it to happen more then once since she was up front about it. Don't become obsessed with her because she's so you and you got her. But really make sure she's 21. You don't want to go to jail.

2006-08-24 12:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

A couple years ago, I was propositioned by a gal who was 21; I was 40 at the time.
It was in a bar, I was shooting pool. She came over to watch me play, then started a conversation with me.
She was pretty, had nice curves; told me she'd like to take me home.
I told her that I was into women my age.
She replied that she had "experience" and that I wouldn't me disappointed.
I still said no.
Would it have been fun? - probably.
But, I've gone with my intuition thru my life for the most part, and at that time, my intuition was telling me "don't do it". - So, I didn't.

2006-08-24 12:29:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

I bet she's serious. It sounds like she wants you to want her, especially after it's over. She probably hopes you will beg. I used to get more attention than I really would have normally expected because I made no bones about being a virgin. There are just women out there who seem to like having power over men. Please follow your head!

2006-08-24 12:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by Rossonero NorCal SFECU 7 · 0 0

If it looks too good to be true...well, Donald...what I would advise is this: Go along and don't count on anything real happening. This way, when it does (maybe), you can be pleasantly surprised! Don't get too down if she's just playing you.

2006-08-24 12:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 0 0

Go the direction the little guy points. You might never get that young sn*tch again. Try to tap her a** too.

2006-08-24 12:17:37 · answer #6 · answered by BadAdvice 3 · 0 0

I would go for it, & you only live once. Go with it, but if you do lay some ground rules, & have some rubber on hand for just in case.

2006-08-24 13:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by jrutan1077 1 · 0 0

Depends how young we are talking here!! She probably looking for someone with more experience than someone of her own age.

2006-08-24 12:18:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Is she over the age of consent? Then think yourself lucky.

2006-08-24 12:19:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Use your brain - she or her parents could sue your dumb *** faster than you can zip up your fly post-sex. Go find someone older and stop hanging out with underage girls.

2006-08-24 12:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by rrhiannon99 2 · 0 1

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