Some people say you shouldn't, but nobody ever follows it.
2006-08-24 12:11:51 · 26 answers · asked by Mrs.Joseph.Adam.Jonas 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you should change just for him. Be whatever he wants you to be. When he dumps you then figure out what the next guy might want and turn into that. Keep repeating that for the secret to REAL love.
2006-08-24 12:14:28 · answer #1 · answered by BadAdvice 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I don't follow that philisophy at all. I never wear make up or anything like that, and only dress really nicely if its for special events. But I always tell guys this is how I am, I'm not changing for anyone. Personality or otherwise. Just ppl misintrept what my personality is about. And that is on them cuz I have never changed.
2006-08-24 19:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who changes themselves for a guy ends up not being with him anyway. No one wants to be with someone fake, and over time even the best covers tear. You'll do nothing but attract the wrong kind of men, if someone doesn't like you for you then f*** 'em.
I'm horrifed reading some of these responses from other females! You can only change if its for you, and if you keep changing to suit others you'll be left with no one.
2006-08-24 19:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by Satisfied Mind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not, be real, be who you are, I think you will much happier in the long run. Make a list of what you think are your best qualities, I bet you will find it's a long list. There is someone out there that will love you for who you are, so don't go changing just to get some guy. He probably isn't worth it.
Just my opinion...
2006-08-24 19:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by Little Stevie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, no. But it never hurts to TRY new things. Don't change yourself for someone else, you have to do it for YOU. If you like the way you look, don't do anything. If you like the way you think of yourself and how you treat others, don't change anything.
Be yourself for you, it really sucks to lose yourself. Honestly, we tend to get so wrapped up in what we think others want from us, that we forget who we are. Don't do that to yourself. Always know who you are and what you want out of life.
2006-08-24 19:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by Heidi R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unhappy with yourself then yes change, but don't do it for anyone else. If a guy requires you to change to give you a chance, then you can expect him to be very controlling in a relationship. It's not worth it.
2006-08-24 19:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...if your looks are bad, like you don't comb your hair or take baths, then it's ok to change. And if your personality is your a man hating crazy, then you can change.
So there is nothing wrong with changing bad looks or personality.
2006-08-24 19:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck no... you should never change your personality for someone else especially for them to like you. Be yourself and do it proudly. Oh and if a guy does not like you for who you are then he's not worth your time.
2006-08-24 19:27:15 · answer #8 · answered by valentinegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can u change your personality ? cause science cant help u !
2006-08-24 19:14:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
helllllll no i would never ask a woman to change to make me happy be urself as long as it does not hurt ur health
2006-08-24 19:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by JOHNATHAN A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋