A guy liked me and asked me out. I turned him down. For a while I thought that I liked him, but just didnt think much of it. Now I hate seeing him with other girls. I know this is totally wrong because I had my chance. But does this mean I really did like him? or is it just something that happens to everybody and will pass?
2006-08-24 12:07:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound as if you have a case of I always want what somebody else has until I have it. find someone else.
2006-08-24 12:10:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didnt really like him. If you did you wouldnt have rejected him. Your doing the normal thing most people do. When he comes easly to you it's not a challenge so you dont bother. But once you know that some one else has him its not in your benefit, it becomes a challenge to win him back, making it more apealing. So you just want it your way. I used to do that all the time and it drove me crazy! Let it go its not that big of a deal. Itll pass....plus if he liked you that much he'd stil being trying to get you not dating some one else so i wouldnt be too worried.
2006-08-24 19:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by xbinary_dreamsx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You A) could have liked him or B) liked the attention. Do some thinking and sort out your thoughts to find out how you really feel. Then if you do like him you need to tell him. Good luck
2006-08-24 19:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by missyb5884 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You BETA TEST him
BETA TEST: When a company wants to know if a product is good enough, they let other people try, fix it, shape it up and once that product is 100% good then they finally want to use it/sell it
You didn't want him because you were afraid he wasn't good enough. Now that you can tell he is you want him back. Too late. He is happy now, and you need to move on
2006-08-24 19:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how much it bugs you
yes you probably do still have feelings for him if that makes you jealous but you have to decide weather or not the feelings are strong enough to mean alot to you
best of luck with this 1
2006-08-24 19:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because your inner mind is telling you
see ? he can go out and meet dates , he was just bet your hands and you refused him
that's a selfish side of your personality and i guess it's normal cause you thought that you can have at anytime but it turned out to be wrong
ask him out , no dignity in that
2006-08-24 19:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by spikydaisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not dating and he is there's a good chance that you're just feeling sorry for yourself. But, if you like him then there's still a chance...
2006-08-24 19:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, you liked him. You just did not admit it fo yourself. Often the heart thinks one thing and the mind thinks another...
2006-08-24 19:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guess is that you liked him but didnt realize it, kindaa weird, but yea, im guessing you were looking for what u like and disliking about him, and if that what happened u didnt kno u liked him!! kindaa strange actually
2006-08-24 19:22:58 · answer #9 · answered by bryantsahota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just an attention seeker! It will pass!!!
2006-08-24 19:16:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋