ok so say i see a guy at the mall and he has one friend with him and it seems like he is checking me out and im with my friend..should i go up to him if i should...what do i say..i dont wanna look weird...and if i shouldnt should i just wait for him to come up to us...(even though they dont...trust me this scene has played out soo many times and nothing happens bc i dont go up to them LOL)......so anyways yeh what do i say..and please no stupid excuses like "excuse me do u have the time" bc that would just embrass me :P
2006-08-24 12:07:20 · 7 answers · asked by portuguese_chicka_101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say just be weird and embarrassed. If your waiting for the perfect time and thing to say, so it all comes out like a the plot of the OC....it will never happen.
So just be weird...it will be cute and funny. If he does like you, it's not like he will rip into you right there. And if he does not like you...well, at least you would know.
2006-08-24 12:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and say nice shoes or something. If you know the guy that the guy who was checking you, then talk to that guy and let him introduce you to the guy who was checking you out. If you don't know both of them, then just follow them and look for a chance to get to talk to him. Don't just come up to him all of a sudden and make a conversation. Wait for the right moment like when he is on line getting food pretend to fall in line to and converse with him, or when he is checking out some shoes pretend to look for shoes you are planning to buy for someone else and ask him his recommendations. Or you could all screw that and just go up to him and say 'Fancy-a-f u c k?' -you tease.
2006-08-24 12:15:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait for them to come to me, and it does happen they do come to you , but guess what its usually with that same dumb excuse, //// do you have the =time, lol but if you wanted to go up to then, you could be like , hey!! arent you mikes friend, lol oh! your not , oh sorry i thought i had seen you before9 or something like that) and be like well i am ( your name here) and let it go from there, if they were checking you out, and want to talk to you , then chances are they will try to continue the convo , best of luck!
2006-08-24 12:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's the deal - even if he says "no" its not like you were with him anyway so nothing has changed because you still wont be with him - but if he says yes, then you have a smile from ear to ear - never be afraid to go for it because you'll always have the "what if" hovering in your head.
2006-09-01 08:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by Qmarc Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something (anything) to look at in his direction, walk over and pretend to have interest in it. Casually look him over ( you know how you do it) and then focus on the item. Let him come to you, the closer you get to him, the more likely he will be to get closer to you.
2006-08-24 12:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by Heidi R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is checking you out say something clever like 'I bet I can beat you in an arm wrestling."
2006-08-30 09:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he looks smile
if he smiles back
move your head to your side getting him away from his friend
if he follows the norm Hi
if he does not HIS GAAAAY!!!!!
2006-08-24 12:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by worried 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋