we do the normaly clits and all but its not enough for me. i really want both of us to enjoy it and becos of this he feels its his fault.
2006-08-24 12:05:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to have him do things to other parts of your body like lick your neck and stuff. Because that will get the juces flowing so then try to have him finger and stuff liek that. Then if your still not aroussed then i dont know what to say?!
2006-08-24 12:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do take longer to get aroused. That seems to me to be a joy rather than a disappointment. The guy just gets to enjoy things longer that way. Fault doesn't have anything to do with it. There are things you can consider doing together to warm you up that are fun and I'm sure a bunch of those will be mentioned here.
2006-08-24 19:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gotta go anal. Trust me on this. Be gentle at first. Just a finger sliding gently across the anus (preferably lubed) will send skyrockets flying. Progress from there. A pinky inserted, a tongue applied opens new worlds. Get over any inhibition. This is for REAL! Proceed as tolerated. And tolerate it, it's worth it. A little known E-Zone is the armpits, assuming properly cleaned and shaven. Another unknown wonder. Talk dirty. Say taboo words like, cu_t and coc_. As_ feels so good when you do that. Sounds silly, I know. Don't take my word for it, I'm just a hapless jackass. Try it for yourself. You got nothin' to lose.
2006-08-24 19:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay! I had the same problem! just up until about a couple months ago. You have to be completely comfortable with your man. I don't know if you like to go into in slow, but I'd advise it. Make sure your mind is completely clear, except for sexual things of course. Don't worry about what hes doing to you, think about how you feel. Don't be afraid to try wild and different, but comfortable, positions. You have to be somewhat relaxed. And most of all don't let him penetrate until your wet, because i don't know about you but that sure sucks, when he puts it in without me being wet.
2006-08-24 19:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for me sex begins in my mind. I get really turned on by reading literotica stories and stuff like that and I need my hubby to talk a little dirty to me before we actually start kissing and getting it on. You should try that, it works. There is a great website called www.literotica.com and it is just stories and stuff. There are no viruses or pop ups on this site, so it seems pretty safe.
2006-08-24 19:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by joandi_99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may need to try something a bit more spontaneous. Sex is a whole lot better when its not planned. Maybe try watching some sexually explicit films or perhaps the sex manual (karma sutra).
2006-08-24 19:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by Monie D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm longer forplay more intamacy prolonged arrousal oral sex and maybe some toys also make him wear a rubber and try to prolong his orgasm
2006-08-24 19:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by JOHNATHAN A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Define "we do the normal clits?"...you ever had a black man?
2006-08-24 19:09:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF HE FEELS LIKE ITS HIS FAULT HE'S NOT GOING TO BE INTO IT ANYMORE...MAYBE WATCH PORN TOGETHER OR GO TO A BOOK STORE AND READ SOME BOOKS ON HOW TO DO THINGS BETTER.
2006-08-24 19:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by Trinity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks like something is wrong with him. Tell him to lick your a$$hole. That might work.
2006-08-24 19:08:55 · answer #10 · answered by Solja Boi 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋