Okay, one more question before I get off...?

Question

Do you think...once a cheater always a cheater?

Can cheaters really change?

Answer 1

I think so. Maybe many years later when they changed, or simply with a different partner which causes the situation to change. Either way the root of the problem that caused or allowed it to happen in the past has had to changed, or it will continue.

Answer 2

I can answer this question for you cause I use to be a cheater and I have repented and changed and I will never be a cheater again I will be very frank here I was married twice be4 and I am on my 3rd marriage and during my first two marriages I cheated the men in my life could not satisfy my high sex drive I most have to much male hormones running thought my body all men and woman have male and female hormones and both my first husbands had too much female hormones I was always in the mood oops still am but now I got a man that pleases me Evey time and we have the same sex drive it really sucks when you got some one that don't share your same drive it just is doomed to fail just my opinion but strictly it seems to be next too money the biggest reason for divorce in this country!!!!

Answer 3

Definetly! I've only cheated once in my life. After that a woman cheated on me, actually the same one I cheated on. After knowing what it felt like to get cheated on, I basically promised myself never to let it happen again. That was many years ago now and I've kept that promise to myself. I changed so I'm sure anyone else could too. Even if they are a repeated cheater, there is still a chance, however slim that may be. The person could still have a change of heart or logical outlook.

Answer 4

You need to understand what guys and gals each think a cheater is

I think you will find that they are different

guys are interested in dating. That means going out with more than one woman at a time, which may also include sex.

women only ever want to date one man at a time, and expect that once they have gone out once that they are "together" as a couple.

The problem is a lack of communication.

Women and men both need to sit down and agree at some point that they are interested in each other enough that they are willing to be exclusive to each other. Until the 2 of you sit down and have that talk, all men beleive that they can continue to go out with as many women as they like at one time.

Back to your original question.
You cannot call it cheating until after the agreement to be exclusive has been established.
And no, based on what I have explained I do not beleive that everyone cheats, and therefore just because someone cheated once doesnt mean that they will cheat again.

Answer 5

I don't think once a cheater always a cheater, but it is probably the case most of the time.

Answer 6

um thats a hard question. i think it depends on the person and the circumstance. my friend told me every man has to cheat to be in a relationship and from the last relationship i was in he might be right. even if you just have that other person to help calm you down after your mate got you all hype. i do believe cheaters can change and non cheaters can change as well

Answer 7

yes. i don't think they actually change until they feel the pain of betrayal for themselves. i think cheaters get a thrill out of getting away with something wrong, you know like bank robbery. so i think cheaters only change when they have been made to bleed.

Answer 8

no they will not change, yes once a cheater always a cheater.

Answer 9

mmmmm.... sometimes, it depends of how much the person loves the other person, and how much is willing to do to be with he or she... but I think it's difficult for a cheater not to be a cheater, but it's not impossible...

Answer 10

i would say no but there are certian people that learn their lession the first time but if they have cheated more then once i would have to say yes once a cheated always a cheater!