okay there's this guy at work and i told my friends that i thought he was cute and so now everybody knows of course, well my friend started like watching him to see if he ever looked at me, and she said he was, only he would pull his hat down real low and kinda look out from under. okay so i finally said okay give him my number cause i am about at the point where i just need to know, okay so they told him and gave him my number, well later in the day we had to go to a meeting and i left when it was over without waiting for my friends and they said that him and his friend both watched me leave the room. then the next morning at our little morning meeting, they said that he just kept staring at me, of course i didn't look at him cause i'm afraid i'll have this lovesick puppy dog look written all over my face, so he's never called but some of them have started talking to him and have decided that he is really super shy and yeasterday i got the nerve to wave at him from my friends car
2006-08-24 11:57:39 · 7 answers · asked by hezcute 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and he kinda waved back and he smiled and kinda just shook his head like, oh i can't believe this or something (i don't know how to explain it) but anyway, i've been trying to get my friends to just go ask him if he's even interested but they haven't yet, i'm trying to get up the nerve to do it myself but it's really hard. okay so what do you think?
2006-08-24 12:00:41 · update #1
they've already discovered that he doesn't have a girlfriend. and this other lady that started when he did, she told my friend that she said to him, 'somebody is fond of you' and he said yea i know, i got her number. could he be just so shy that he doesn't want to say anything and is just being nice?
2006-08-24 12:43:46 · update #2
he kind of avoids me now, either like he's not interested or he's just shy. i don't know, i was sitting next to this lady that knows that i have a crush on him and that he has my number, and she whistled at him, when he was standing like right in front of us working and of course i didn't look to see what he did, but she said he just smiled and shook his head. i'm trying now to work on the eye contact thing, since i waved at him, i'm getting a little more nerve, but he will not even look. my friend said that yesterday when we were having another one of those meetings, that i din't go to at first cause i didn't know it was for my group, but the supervise told someone to go get me and she said it looked to her like he kept watching the door. so i don't know, .
2006-08-24 13:10:46 · update #3
Ok first I'm really wondering how old you both are. I'm thinking young because it all sounds childish. Ok now that I have said that this is what I think.
A guy likes a shy girl but you are so shy he just doesn't know what to do or think anymore so it seems as if he has moved on. When someone makes eye contact with you or trys to it's becausee he wants you to look at him. He wants you to catch him staring at you. I would have to say that you really need to step up to the plate here and show that you are really interested. So this mean that you would have to talk to him. You need to be the one flirting here. Come on girl flirting is a fun thing. Be confident you know he likes you but now it's time to show him that you "really" like him. Because he is just taking your shyness as a not interested sign. Be bold! Like how you said that one lady whistled at him...don't you wish that was you who whistled? Because that sure got his attention. Maybe the first thing I would do is YOU give him YOUR number. Yes he already has it but you don't really know that. Plus if it comes from you it will mean more. It sounds like you just really need someone to talk to. If you would like you can email me at angeldrummer5@yahoo.com. But basically you need to break out of your shyness shell first to do anything! Good luck!
2006-08-24 13:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 19:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by cromlish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon how old you and he are. You sound very young. I would just keep smiling at him when you are around him and wait to see what happens. If he really likes you and is ready to date, he will have to overcome his shyness sometime and ask you out.
2006-08-24 13:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably does not want that type of attention at work.
It could make things difficult.
I would be leery to, I mean sex is great but eating is essential!
2006-08-24 13:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't know what to think yet. Just wait it out! And find out if he's taken first.
2006-08-24 11:59:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-08-24 12:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by The original John Doe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, I agree... wait until you find out he's single
2006-08-24 12:01:15 · answer #7 · answered by marinescheerleader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋