I had really intense feeling for a girl, but then she moved far away.. It's been a few years later, but I can't get those strong feelings towards women like I had for her. I mean I run into girls that I find attractive, but its different. I know its cause the pain, and not wanting to deal with the hurt again. I mean she was upset too..But there was nothing we could do about it.. Now what steps do you feel I should take to get back to feeling like I once had?.. Its kinda like the notebook, except I will probably never see her again, and I didn't have sex with her..
2006-08-24 11:46:13 · 11 answers · asked by ۞ JønaŦhan ۞ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you are one terrific guy to still carry the torch.
However, you have to get past the fact that you will love like that again. You won't. You'll love again but it will be a different feeling. If you continue to compare her to all the other women you meet (which I suspect that you may be doing), you are cheating yourself out of the possibility to falling in love again with someone new...
2006-08-24 11:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try and get in contact with her, one way or the other...email or IM is a great place to connect to people who are far away. did she leave you an address or anything? you should try and talk to her and tell her how you feel...you never know, she might have felt the same way, and would want to pursue a long distance relationship. although, since it's been a few years, she could have moved on. at least you could get the piece of mind you need and resolve your feelings after you contact her.
good luck.
2006-08-24 18:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are choosing to continue to obscess over her. You are wasting your time....precious time. The only way to have a satisfying life is to make the decision to Move On!!! Stop feeling sorry for yourself!
2006-08-24 18:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's like the notebook? you've seen the notebook? I'm sure you'll meet up with him again
2006-08-24 18:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by Shawn V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww. e-mail me sometime, we can talk. I'm going through a similar situation. Moonchild1683@yahoo.com
2006-08-24 18:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude your third pic looks like a serial killer mugshot...and whats up with the lime green /w/matching hat jump suit...thats hillarious
2006-08-24 18:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find that girl and tell her you love her.
2006-08-24 18:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by shomechely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look dorky in that picture, that is what I think.
2006-08-24 18:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by Alan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you: you look weird in that picture, i hope is not you.
2006-08-24 18:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by Telma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GAWD.....Please remove those pictures of yourself, you will soo thank me l8ter
2006-08-24 18:48:09 · answer #10 · answered by Free & Sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋