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Reason I ask this question is, the guy's in our office seem to google every women that walks by and all they seem to think about is how good looking we are and they have no problem talking about it.
As I asked a question a few minutes ago about a male who constantly asks me for lunch dates. What I failed to mention in that question was the fact that he's a married man and asks alot of us out as do the other men in the office who are either attached or married.

2006-08-24 11:38:21 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Keep one thing in mind - ALL men are PIGS. We look for one thing and one thing only.

2006-08-24 11:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 3

As a man I will tell you i have morals, but I will also tell you why it is so impossible nowadays to live with morals. Its almost impossible because its not just men its also women who dont have morals. I agree its wrong for coworkers to oggle you at work but at the same time there could be a guy like myself who is just admiring you and not oggling yet I would get put in the same category. I love women's natural beauty and I think its ok to look as long as the person is COMFORTABLE with it. At the same time though all these people with no morals, men and women screw it up for guys that actually have them like myself. Therefore turning us into hopeless romantics, nice guys that get douched over you know the works. Iam sorry for the situation you do deal with though.

2006-08-24 11:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by bibby6914 3 · 0 0

Office guys are different from us tradesmen, we will look but we know that we can not touch. WE ARE STILL MEN and we know that women were designed to 'DRIVE US CRAZY'. Your gender is a beauty to us. You like flowers and nature - some guys will class the look of a woman the same way. I will put this into capitals to show what I mean. - WOMAN IS THE FINEST CREATION EVER TO BE INTRODUCED TO OUR WORLD. - THERE IS NOTHING NOTHING NOTHING MORE BEATIFUL THAN YOUR GENDER - I WORSHIP THE SCENT OF A WOMAN - WHEN YOU ARE HAVING A REALLY HARD DAY AND A WOMAN PASSES YOU BY WITH:
1.THE GORGEOUSNESS IN YOUR EYES
2. THE PERFECTLY CURVED SMILE ON YOUR SOFT & DELICATE FACE
3. THE SHAPE OF A CREATURE ( sorry about the term) BLESSED WITH BEAUTY AND GRACE.
4. THE MIND OF A SAINT (In some cases this is wrong)
5. THE "POWER" YOU HAVE TO DOMINATE OUR PATHETIC EGO"S
Can you blame a man for loving something so pure, so delicate, so able to fulfill not only our fantasies but also the flaws we know we were born with.
This is the view of a lowly tradesperson and unfortunately alot of women look past the man that will 'CHERRISH' them and nuture their beauty.
You talk about men in the office always WATCHING & LEERING as you pass. DO NOT BLAME MEN FOR THAT - Blame profession and what it will do to a person. YOU ALSO BLAME A TRADESMAN - for whistling at you when you pass their site. UNDERSTAND ONE THING AS CLEARLY AS OU CAN - - -WE whistle at women in the hope that they will walk away not upset, --, but understanding that men appreciate their beauty. These white collared wankers you speak of are victims of their own demise. THEY HAVE MONEY AND EXPECT WOMEN TO WANT THEM FOR THAT - THEY HAVE NO IDEA OF LIFE BECAUSE THEY HAVE NEVER LIVED IT - TRY to imagine a man with 3 kids, He has had hardship in his life - a hardship he does not want his children to endure. He will work for 60 -80 hours a week to accomplish what he desires for his wife and kids.It is the path he has chosen, it is a hard path to choose as he will have to sacrifice not only his soul, but also the length of his life from working so hard to achieve other peoples dreams. The dreams that he and his LOVING wife have ceated. THERE IS A BIG DIFFERENCE between a man that has to fight and a man who has been spoit for his entire life. Can you see the difference - money is this worlds new religion and OFFICE BOYS all want to be GOD but a lesser paid man wants to be a good person, a good huband and a good dad.

Please think of this.

Hope this helps.

2006-08-24 12:30:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

answered first question few minutes ago. been in long term relationship and will admit that looking is something that i do. but that is that. guys seem to be wired to keep looking, it takes character to stop at that. your clarification says it all. the guy is a pig and you should do what you can to discourage his advances. morals are a reflection of how you are raised and personal choice. society does a poor job teaching men to have character. no role models. sounds like a tough place to work. good luck. peace

2006-08-24 11:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

As a married man I can tell you that I have never asked any girls out since I've been married. I work at a university and there are tons of good looking girls but I would never go out with them even on a lunch date because I love and respect my wife.

2006-08-24 11:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1 0

Some guys have morals, but not many. Took me 45 years to find one! But he's the best! Hang in there and don't settle! And stay away from the married/attached ones. If they'll cheat on their wives, they'll definitely cheat on you!

2006-08-24 11:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by Emmie 1 · 0 0

the answer to that is basically no, darling. men don't have morals. even in biblical days they were allowed to have several wives and concubines. God knows what kind of creatures he created when he created men. you know how weird office romances can get when you break up. keep that in mind. as for whorish boy, tell him you don't date men without morals or ask him if his wife will be joining the two of you for lunch.

2006-08-24 11:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by teri s 1 · 1 0

i answered your first question, I am surprised you would even consider it, you seem a little confused to be asking if guys have morals if you were in fact thinking about going out with this married dude. Do women have morals?

2006-08-24 11:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by Angry Insightful Black 3 · 4 0

Some of us have morals. It just depends on the person... same with women. But i do find married persons (male or female) asking co-workers out on dates is just bad buisness.

2006-08-24 11:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by Joe Nathan 2 · 0 0

Most young women in the workplace have this problem. The married guys are always searching for a bit of "greener grass"...lol
BTW...that really is a sexy avatar

2006-08-24 11:42:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No some guys have no morals and stay away from the guy in the office,hes a cheater.

2006-08-24 11:40:12 · answer #11 · answered by nanny2 4 · 1 0

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