im gothic and i cut my arms ever day and i somke and a lot more ...........and my best friend is saying that im not gothic when i am and my dad died and very thing is fells like i want to die .
2006-08-24 11:31:26 · 18 answers · asked by Goth_Satan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you seriously need some prefessional help dont wait get it now
2006-08-24 11:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by cherdwum4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, seek help today! You may be goth or not--it matters little if you are dead. You are acting very destructive. Taking your pain out on yoruself, since no one else gets it.
You are depressed and reaching out for help--go to the counsellor at school--even if they are dorks-they are educated to help you.
So see your cousin, your best friend, your grandmother--anyone you can talk to about your dad. You are mourning a great loss in your life--get help
You could do a lot of good one day--if you get past this hurdle. It IS a hurdle and there is a flat place on the other side to rest.
I promise!
Let us know how it's going with you. People who don't even know you, care.
2006-09-01 09:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that you are gothic then look at other people that are gothic but take my advise and just do what you believe is right don't listen to other people it can only lead you in the wrong path.
2006-08-24 11:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by babyboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it gothic or are you going through a depression? Maybe you should talk to a therapist to help you sort out your emotions. I'm sorry to hear about your dad. I hope you find something to help you through this.
2006-08-24 11:35:07 · answer #4 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hummm...well your a Smoker and a Cutter, but thoes are not automaticaly Gothic. Feeling depressed is a plus, though. You could try to wear more black and don't do anything 'fun'.
2006-08-24 11:34:29 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear all that. Ignore what your friend says and go and see a counsellor about your bereavement, you're in grief and you shouldn't be suffering alone. If you can't speak to your family or friends a counsellor should be able to help you. Your doctor can refer you.
2006-08-24 11:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by puzzledfemale! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People cutting themselves every day is a symptom of serious issues. You need to see a therapist right away.
2006-08-24 11:34:25 · answer #7 · answered by want it bad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cutting yourself is not "goth". It is an emotional problem that should be handled in therapy. smoking is not "goth" it's a drug habit that burns money and rots your lungs. What you are is a teen, EVERY teen goes through bouts of depression...see a therapist, you'll feel better. And you're not "goth"
2006-08-31 20:56:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop hurting yourself, first of all. You should talk to someone, anyone- Mom, brother, sister, cousin, best friend... Just look for ways to make yourself feel better, without harming your body.
2006-08-24 11:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by Ian D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear about your father...however you must have felt his pain when he died and that is normal however you shouldn't have to cut yourself. Get some help and therapy.
2006-09-01 10:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have your life a head of you your dad is watching you in heaven and maybe feeling guilty my friend dose that and i always tell her not to do it and now she is doing much more better yeah so hey e-mail me ok so we can talk about this much more and your life is much more don't take it aways from your self!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-24 11:34:52 · answer #11 · answered by ~Ruby~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋