my sister has this problem that she is really shy and also she has low self esteem and no comfidence ive tried to help her but it doesnt work what can she do to stop being so shy she says dat when she tries to make friends by starting a conversation they dont wanna be her friends WHATS THE PROBLEM???
2006-08-24 11:31:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She needs to ask your parents to go to counseling... it could help.
Hugs Mel
2006-08-24 11:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not gonna be easy to break out of being shy, but there are ways that u can help:
Improve her dressing style,so she can get more compliments and feel more confident.
Be objective and figure out if she has any irritating habits or anything that may be repulsive to others , and have her get rid of it.
Dont throw her out on her own to begin conversations, get your friends to like her and by interacting, she'll eventually learn!
Or get some professional help
2006-08-24 18:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by africanbarbie86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on her age. If she is around 11 years old, this is a very common thing. I felt like that at 11-12 years old, but I then realized that I had no problem at all.
It's just a preteen thing. She should outgrow it... if that is the situation.
Without her age, I can't give a clear answer for you.
2006-08-24 18:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by Kittyfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she prolly acts really dumb when she is around people. that may turn people off and not be friends with her. another thing is that she may not be good looking or looks weird that could be another reason why people dont want to be with her. does she have a metal disability that can be it too. theres maily alot of reasons why. but those shouldnt be reasons why someone should not hang around with her thats just mean. but i dont know keep talking to her and see what happens. or spy on her and see what the problem is.
i hope i helped
2006-08-24 18:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you two should have an excersize time a few times per week...seriously, no matter what her body type (i am not trying to say she is overweight)...but it will give her confidence and also give her more energy. i bet that would help if you tried it! make it fun...go out and buy some nice workout clothes/shoes..bring music to listen to...set goals for yourselves! hope this helps!
2006-08-24 18:39:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to the beauty salon, get her highlights, get some shirts that show off the bod.. take her to the club or to whatever is cool in your town. Once she gets attention.. Bam!
It worked in Grease for Sandy right?
2006-08-24 18:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by Irish Girl in Cali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very shy in crowds,,,but on yahoo I loosen up a bit,,,tell her to yahoo,,she may meet people that can help.
2006-08-24 18:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by Angie H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take her out in social life alot and make her stick to you for while
social life is the key but you have to be realy patient
2006-08-24 18:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by spikydaisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI, when people are shy, somethimes people think that they are being cold, both of you get dressed up go out,MINGLE.
2006-08-24 18:34:08 · answer #9 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know ppl casually
never play 20questions - ****** annoyin
some ppl can be shallow so dressin well does help
walk confidently, smile, eye contact, articulate and never take any ****.
2006-08-24 18:36:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋