I have been dating this guy off and on for about 7 months, we split up for about two months for no real reason. Then two weeks ago he came back and told me that he was sorry , he missed me , and that he knows now that he messed up. I dont want to get hurt again, so I dont know whether to take him back or just let him go, I think I love him.
2006-08-24 11:26:58 · 18 answers · asked by teaser24162003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In order to decide what to do you need to figure out why you two were always on and off, and has the cause of that changed. If it has then give it a try, if not then don't waste your time because you two just aren't meant to be.
2006-08-24 11:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've sort of been in the same situation. my boyfriend and I dated before and broke up only he did if for his ex. I was pretty scared to date him again scared that we'd break up again later... we'll i've been dating him now for soon to be 9 months so you can see what I choose to do, but its really up to how you feel. Consider what he's done to you to make you feel bad and decide if its really worth it. If you believe him and love him then date him again... maybe just let him know that this could be last time you date him... show him your serious and that you dont want to get hurt. I hope this helps.
2006-08-24 18:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by Your Next Bestfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the key question in your decision is whether you'll get hurt again, you belong in isolation somewhere. There is no guarantee that you won't get hurt by people, however you relate to them. If you don't like the relationship with the guy, then don't pursue it. If you do, then, what's the worn out phrase, "Go for it". But if fear of being hurt is what guides you, if I were the guy here, I'd stay away from you like the plague. God Bless you.
2006-08-24 18:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this time about your condition... Life is short, so just try to love anyone as much as you can.. try to forgive and forget whatever and, you live in a more peaceful way..
so if u think u need to let him go, just do so, and find another one which may be even better, or more caring towards you..
Well i just hope for the best for what you want..
2006-08-25 01:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy treat you like a "spare tyre". Since you think you love him then go back to him and find out more things in this relationship. After all, so many people in this yahoo "answer" give you very helpful tips, so by now use this answers as your guide.
2006-08-25 09:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love the man, go for it. Sometimes you have to get hurt a lot before you find the right one. Thats just part of being in love.
2006-08-24 18:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by lynnerr55 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! There is NO way that you should take him back. Why, I bet he's just using you as a backup because some other girl dumped him. Then when he finds someone better, he'll dump you again and your heart will be broken. There are plenty of fishes in the sea - plenty of guys in the world.
2006-08-24 18:29:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Heres a good bit of advise....your going to get hurt again...over, and over, and over....in many different ways....thats what life is about... try it out....see what happens. What have you got to loose? In the end, the only advantage of not trying it out again is you will have been hurt only 999,999 times in your life as opposed to 1,000,000. Life is about the chances we take. No one gets anywhere by playing it safe....
2006-08-24 18:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by Kisses 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you split up for a reason. it may seem inconsiquential but can be important. if he is sorry are you? love is something that does not let go. love is something that you have. something that you can question but must trust your inner voice about. been in love before? what did you do for seven mths? it hurts to be unsure. peace.
2006-08-24 18:34:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think carefully or u will regret.
Maybe u should tell him that u will like to remain as friend 1st before deciding whether to be with him again.
2006-08-24 22:48:07 · answer #10 · answered by sugar_guy84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋