I’m starting to think that I’m not ready to be committed. I really care about the man who is in my life now and I don’t want to hurt him, but I want to start seeing other people.
I would probably see the man I’m with about once a month, and the other dudes once a week. I don’t want to leave him and end up alone, or for someone who ends up treating me bad. I’m not cheating on him yet, but I’m always out with someone other than him. I’m young and I want to start enjoying my life!!!
2006-08-24 11:12:31 · 11 answers · asked by Sweet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have any feelings at all for your man, you'll break it off now. You said, "I don’t want to leave him and end up alone, or for someone who ends up treating me bad." That means you're just keeping the guy around until you find someone better. It's mean, disrepectful, uncaring.
If it's true that you don't want to hurt him, let him go now -- cleanly and respectfully. Don't make him feel like garbage.
How would you want to be treated?
2006-08-24 12:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Old saying goes you can't have your cake and eat it too. If you don't feel like this is the guy for you then go out and find one. To date many men is great....for a week or two. Then they call you up and another dude answers the phone OR or another man stops by and sees you snuggling up with another guy, or hears a message left on your answering machine, things will get nasty quick.
2006-08-24 18:19:06 · answer #2 · answered by watchoutnowgoodgod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've said it all. You're not ready for a commitment, so be honest with your friend and tell him that at this point of your lives, you need a little space. No one is ever alone for long, so that shouldn't enter into it at all. Be open with him or you'll wind up hurting both of you.
2006-08-24 18:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by loraineb 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to be open and honest with the man your with explain to him you like him but you want to make sure that hes the one, he should respect your feelings Keep it real
2006-08-24 18:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sleep with them all lol hehehe no seriously take to your partner about it maybe he/she feels the same way
its ok to have friends with benifits on the side if both you and your partnert agree but beware jealously issues dont get to intwinded with other(s) maybe all of you enjoy one another
its all about communtation my friend
2006-08-24 18:17:25 · answer #5 · answered by Grateful2NA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go enjoy your life!!!!!!!!!!!
DON'T make the mistake of trapping yourself while your young and gorgeous and regret it. And hey fate is fate... you never know down the road you may end up with him again if it's right!
2006-08-24 18:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are enjoying your life.
2006-08-24 18:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by i_cycle_hard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're not married, it's all good. Don't tie yourself down to one guy until you're ready.
2006-08-24 18:15:02 · answer #8 · answered by Samantha 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well you arent married so why not suggest to your boyfriend to have an open relationship
2006-08-24 18:21:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow! gurl. you will end up crying. :) and you will realize that what you wanted to do isn't really fun. :)
2006-08-24 18:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋