I have a man already but my friend keeps trying to get with me. He trys to break us up. He says he loves me and that I'm so beautiful.That he's never met anyone as beautiful as me. But I don't see him in that way. What do I do???
2006-08-24 11:10:53 · 14 answers · asked by StArS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simple...he's not your friend.
If he is so selfish that he wants to prevent you from being happy with your current boyfriend, and that he keeps trying to break you guys up and cause pain...then he's no good for you - - - ever.
Get him out of your life, asap.
2006-08-24 11:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by Navid V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you're already in a very happy relationship and you don't see it changing anytime soon. And you should probably tell him that you like him as a friend and nothing more. You don't want him to get to the point of stalking you or anything LoL. But you defiantly don't want your boyfriend to think something is going on between you guys, which I'm sure he already knows there's not.
2006-08-24 18:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by Cocoa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I see it, you have two choices...first, you can tell him that if he really cares about you, he should be happy for you because you are with someone you love and not be trying to break you two up. Another choice you have is to just let him know that you don't see him in that way. I know that people are scared to say that because they think their friendship will never be the same but trust me. I told my friend that and now we are practically like brother and sister. He just needs to be understanding about it.
2006-08-24 18:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by lady_ellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
David V answer seems correct... it would seem that he isn't your friend. But I've been in the same position as your friend ... with all my heart and soul ... I knew this women should have been with me. It is very hard, sometimes to know what is right.
But hey if you know your friend isn't right for you as boyfriend ... you need to tell him that. "Even if I didn't have a boyfriend ... you and I would never ever be more than friends."
2006-08-24 18:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then tell him you don't and say your happy in your relationship that you have and you just don't see him as a bf just a friend. then say that you hope hes OK with your decision if he is then he really likes you and you should give him a chance. if he doesn't support your decision then hes making the entire thing up and just thinks he might like you.
2006-08-24 18:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by stupidgirl5665 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give in. He's hater and a cock blocker and ALL he wants is to come in between you and your boyfriend because he is jealous of what you two have. If you went with his advances he would be done with you in a heartbeat. The thrill is in the chase. NOT in the conquer.
2006-08-24 18:14:10 · answer #6 · answered by cami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question isn't what should u do it's is he worth it? Does he treat u better than ur other bo or does ur other bo treat u like the princess of America? Because ur BF is bettr than ur BFF then... well I guess it's up 2 u sweetie!
2006-08-24 18:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to back off if he's persistent. Tell him that you care for him only as a friend and that you love your boyfriend. If he continues to pester you, break off the friendship.
2006-08-24 18:13:33 · answer #8 · answered by zoastriastar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that your not intrested him in that way, if he can't accept that then it may be time to end the friendship. See how he responds to that.
2006-08-24 18:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you like him as a friend and stand your ground - it's bad enough that he's making you uncomfortable but he'll eventually ruin the relationship you do have - get his asss in line
2006-08-24 18:13:27 · answer #10 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋