ok so theres this guy who really like, like almost love, so i finally got the courage to start toling to him and everything but #1 how do i flirt with him i dunno how to flirt at all! or just start a conversation .and #2 how do i find out if he likes me or not i'm to shy to ask or anything what do i do and #3 how do i ask him out? i can't just go up to him and say" Hi! i like you will you go out with me?" -from a confused girl
2006-08-24 10:55:21 · 11 answers · asked by naomi_renee05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How to tell if he likes you
(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).
A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.
Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)
2006-08-24 10:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by lolla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1- You can flirt by commenting on how cute he looks or how good his clothes are. By telling him that he is sexy and touching him barely on his shoulders or his hands.
#2- You will see if he likes you by seeing how he reacts to #1
#3- You can ask him out by indirectly asking him out. By just saying "Oh what are you doing tonight" if he says nothing you can also say you are doing nothing too. Then maybe you can ask him about a movie thats out and if he would like to c it. Then a date will probably arise.
2006-08-24 18:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Incredible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus be urself if he liks u he'll com 2 u. but if u REALLLLLLLLLLLY lik him then go up 2 him and say hi. and thats how u start a convo. whil ur talkin 2 him flip/play with ur hair. bat ur eyelashes. laugh at stuff he says (only if ther suppose 2 be funny). thats how u flirt. then if he doesn't ask u out then get 1 of ur friends 2 ask him if he liks u then if he does go up 2 him and say do u want 2 grab a bite to eat. if he doesn't lik u then do what u want.
2006-08-24 18:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like a guy... but you don't think he knows you exist... then what you need to do is tell your best friend and see if she hangs out with any of the same people he does, or if she knows him really well... so then you can slowly start meeting him and letting things happen that way. Good Luck!!! I've dealt with stuff like this too.
2006-08-24 18:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by Jillian D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you should have to do is just look at him once. Eye contact should be the key. If he is smart he should come to you when you look at him. When a women looks at me and smiles, thats my signal to go on talk to her. If she doesnt like me for some reason then at least I know that I tried. I just drive on from there.
2006-08-24 18:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by Solja Boi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is just your fear. men have the same fear. you can talk to people you do not know in other places from a waiting line at a store to who knows where. start by working on your fear a talk to him when you are near him and work your way to asking the other questions in a short time.
2006-08-24 18:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you just go up to him and say, "Hi! I like you; will you go out with me?" That sounds like a fine thing to do. It would certainly address #1 and #2.
Pull a Nike and "Just Do It."
2006-08-24 18:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by i_cycle_hard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask some else to do it or write a letter
#1----- say like " hi everytime you see him
#2----- later when you know him really good, get one of your best friends to ask him
#3----- ask him out when you know him like your brother or very good friend
2006-08-24 18:03:47 · answer #8 · answered by Hi, wanna chat? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first look him in the eyes when you say anything to him.and also smile. start up conversations with him when he is alone like ask him for help or something i dunno. then start tempting him to make him ask u out
2006-08-24 17:59:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do no.3, just talk to him, with coversation you can find out everything you need to know
2006-08-24 17:59:35 · answer #10 · answered by giddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋