My boyfriend is REALLY pressuring me.
2006-08-24 10:18:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
No, that comes after you're married.
Of course I'm just kidding...then again maybe not.
2006-08-24 10:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you won't go to hell for that as far as I am concerned. But just make sure that you are doing it for the right reasons. Don't just do it because you are being pressured, if your boyfriend really cares than he would wait until you are ready. If that is a problem for him that is his s#!t not yours. You should be comfortable and sure that you want to have sex, once you do it there is no taking it back.
2006-08-24 17:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by tat2jug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you will not go to Hell as long as you recognize that it is sin and is punishable by eternal damnation. If you repent and never have it again till you are married you will not be subject to eternal death.
A section from Hamlet comes to mind, where the Evil King repents of murdering his brother, but realizes that he shall never be forgiven as long as he retains his brothers crown. Same thing applies here, you cant repent and then keep having premarital sex because then you truely are not sorry for the sin of lust.
2006-08-24 17:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by The Reverend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I had premarital sex, and I went to Purgatory...Purgatory, Colorado, that is. They have a great ski area! I'm not sure that trip was actually a result of my premarital affairs, though.
2006-08-24 17:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only to be judged by God and no one else. But haveing premarital sex is the same as commiting fornication. And in the bible fornication is an abominaton which can lead up to you going to hell if you do ..do it. please think about this..........no one is worth going to hell over! Stay encouraged!
2006-08-24 17:24:58 · answer #5 · answered by rebecca d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sin you can commit has the power to send you to Hell if you give those sins to Jesus who pays the full price for those sins. I will tell you, out of more years experience in life than I care to admit, that you will not feel anything but guilt and pain if your give in. If your bf really loves you he will be able to wait for you to be ready and then your first experience will be something really special and beautiful.. If you have respect for yourself your bf will respect you to. If he doesn't....Do you really want a man in your life that doesn't respect you? Your question makes me think that you haven't asked Christ into your life. I would love the chance to help you find your way to salvation in Christ. If not me please find a christian friend or a good Bible believing church to help you find your way to Jesus... Jim
2006-08-24 17:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pre-marital sex and extra-marital sex go against God's purpose of sex for us, to join in marriage and create families.
Wouldn't you want to save those special moments for the one you get to fall in love with and become husband and wife with?
2006-08-24 17:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mahira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will go to hell if you're not a Christian.......but you're not condemned to hell for sinning a specific time (which is what having premarital sex is :-)
....and as for your boyfriend.....tell him to keep his wanger zipped up and get over it cause it's not the time for ya'll to do the horizontal dance
2006-08-24 17:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by egyptsprincess07 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No your not going to hell.....Where you are going is much worse.
Really........Wait until you are married because you never know when and if your boyfriend will leave you for someone else.
2006-08-24 18:47:13 · answer #9 · answered by akknaley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilt, Remorse, Regret
I would definitely say RESTRAIN and do it with the one you love in marriage. It will be better for your future.
2006-08-24 17:37:26 · answer #10 · answered by EnlightME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahaha wow! religion really has you by the balls, no pun intended. according to religion, you should also kill all nonbelievers, so why dont you go kill some atheists, agnostics, jew, muslims. religion is a form of control, get over it.
2006-08-24 17:21:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋