do you think my bf will go back to his baby mama who and him was going for about 10+yrs they always make up and break up but this time they have been broken up for awhile or so he says he's not going back to her but when she says she's ready to take him back he goes he says he really loves me and wants to be with me but i don't know me and him have been together for 2+yrs and i really do love him and know he loves me thank to all who will answer
2006-08-24 10:16:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't know what to tell you ask him if he'll marry you and see what he says and ask him to move in with him and ask him question that will be meaning to you and him and by the way he answers you then you'll know whats the deal
2006-08-24 10:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a pattern that is emerging between he and his ex-girlfriend which is that they seem to get back together. You have to realize that they will always have a bridge to each other considering that she is the mother of his children. Going into the relationship you should have known about his baggage. The only thing that you can do at this point is take his word for it but be prepared and cautious in case he does stray. If you wish to avoid all this drama and pain you should end the relationship. Find someone without these complicated issues. Just remember, if he really DID love you he wouldn't be hurting your feelings or breaking your heart so much. If he doesn't care for you THAT much, why should you for him.
2006-08-24 10:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by cryingrainbow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are he will go back this time too. The best indicator of what some will do in the future is the things they have done repeatedly in the past. If he has been doing for 10+ years to her and 2+ years to you and getting away with it why would he want to change?
2006-08-24 10:20:39 · answer #3 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is a very tough situation to deal with. I think that you have to look deep in side and ask do you really want to deal with this the rest of your life cause the baby momma is always going to be there. I think the sooner u get out the easier it will be. cause if he left u for her before then he will probably do it again and again until they decide that they want to be together. but i don't know the guys so only u can answer that question.
hope everything works out :)
2006-08-24 10:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he leaves you for his baby mama than you know he wasnt worth it. but if he keeps reasuring you that he aint gonna go no where than give him that chance. if you guys have been together for 2+yrs, than you have to mean something to him. i know it's hard but you need to be strong and also let him know how you feel. talking is the best part only dont start getting all upset tell him you just want to talk about the situation and you should be able to get somewhere.
2006-08-24 10:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a very difficult situation to be in but from a guys point of view I think that he keeps you as a fall back girl and gets the best of both worlds. Do what you feel is best for you but I would say find somebody else that will give you all of their attention.
2006-08-24 10:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by Michael R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to tell you this but i think he will go back. They ALWAYS do. They say they won't but they eventually will and when they do they come out with the stupidest excuse ever. So if you step up right now you won't get hurt as much. It will hurt but if you find out he cheated on you later on it will hurt twince as much.Be strong and like my mother tells me "there is alot of fish in the sea"!!! so trust me you will find someone later on in life and you will be happy.
2006-08-24 10:26:09 · answer #7 · answered by BabyGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he weak he will go back. Some people that go through stuff like this eventually change. They get tired of running back and going through the same shyt all the time. It all depends on what type of person he is. He might and he might not go back with her. If you really love him, you step in and take him from her. Don't allow him to go back to her.
2006-08-24 10:20:44 · answer #8 · answered by sr04model 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he will go back. I was with a guy that was in a relationship like that before we got together. We got married....I thought that was the answer to my dreams.........Nope he still started messing with her about 6 months after we married, cuz she threatened to take the kid away and he'll never see it if he didn't have anything to do with her. She even threatened him before we got married because she was jealous. Unfortunately, men are suckers for that.
2006-08-24 10:24:48 · answer #9 · answered by KD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is always going to be connected to her for the rest of his life and as long as you are with him yours also. The question is can you deal with him going back and forth, because if you allow it and keep taking him back where is the insentive to stay with you and only you. He will not leave her and stay with you, why should he when he has you both. Just a thought....
2006-08-24 10:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by laziewon2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He does have a child with her and that maybe the contributing factor. He may love you and still have feelings for her and go back to her because of the child.
2006-08-24 10:18:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋