The girl seems just as interested in me as I am in her, but she has a boyfriend. She asks me to go out all the time, and we do go out. I ask her to go out too. We've already gone out to dinner, played golf, and went to the movies and i went shopping with her. The whole situation is really confusing me. She always make these hints that she does like me too.
2006-08-24 10:13:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Until the boyfriend is out of the picture she isn't available to you. Be happy with the friendship and see other people. If you are unable to do that, then you may need to end the friendship.
Hugs Mel
2006-08-24 10:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should stop seeing her until she is no longer going with the other guy as a boyfriend. By allowing her to play both of you, she does not have to choose. That is not a good sign and you need to make it clear that while you like her, you can't go out unless she is no longer a girlfriend of someone else.
2006-08-24 17:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by united9198 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the same situation happened with me, i had a boyfriend and i like another guy and we went out and did stuff.. she probably does like you but is taking her time trying to get to know you b4 she dumps her boyfriend. dating is confusing but if u want to do it you have to be up for the challenge. so i would just give it a little bit longer and talk to her about how you feel.
2006-08-24 17:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Iwant you to put yourself in her boyfriends shoes. Now just suppose you do end up with this girl arent you going to wonder who she might be seeing behind your back? I dont think shes being fair to ehthier of the guys but arent things great for her!
2006-08-24 17:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite the boyfriend along one time and see if she brings him. If she does, you are just a friend. If she won't then ask her what her intentions are.-And if the boyfriend shows up pay more attention to him than her.
2006-08-24 17:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by JustLynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing the field and enjoying her life.......... jus hang out and go do things, enjoy yourself with her. She isn't do anything wrong and if it is ment for the two of you to be something more.... it'll happen. Jus enjoy the moment and the time you share and the rest will fall into place if its ment to.
2006-08-24 17:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. A guy tried to come between me and my girlfriend and I was beyond pissed. It just isnt the right thing to do i mean put youself in his position. How ever mean it may sound the right person would just leave it.
2006-08-24 17:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by Jay B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're in the catbird seat, my friend, don't change a thing and you'll outlast the other guy. You know what they say in sports: don't change a winning game.
2006-08-24 17:20:45 · answer #8 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the definition of obsession. The only cure is to find another pereson.
2006-08-24 17:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by oakbridge 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she liked you then she would break up with her man. Maybe she is just using you if you always pay for your outings.
2006-08-24 17:16:31 · answer #10 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋